Love and 'Love' are two separate things. Love is when you truly love someone for who they are and develop a bond on top of that (You can have this with a pet animal for example). Romantic love would be that while your also having sex with the person or are intimate in some other form.
The other kind is catching feelings for someone and 'feeling in love'. That one you can indeed experience after sex, especially since you are a girl and this happens stronger for women. Doesn't have anything to do with loving someone, but it has a lot to do on being addicted to them. And its the withdrawel from this that hurts.
So i'd say both are correct, Love and Sex are separate things but at the same time sex can cause the bonding hormone to be released and make you addicted to their presence. If you are going to have sex with someone you will have the risk of pain in the end. Its up to you if you find that worthy, either way i recommend only having sex with people you know, trust and can connect with on that sexual level.
Yeah but if i know that it is because bonding hormone i think it is easier to control. Because i think what i want is lust right now. Yes i can not do it without trust.
You definitely experience the lust, but its the lust part that can hurt. Its the same pain you can feel if you have been single for a while. Just know that its not necessarily attached to the person but happening because he is no longer able/willing to fulfill that need. That can set you free if it comes to that. But its a risk either way, so its up to you if you want to experience this or if you rather wait for mutual love.
I think sex for everyone is different. Some can separate sex from emotion, others it goes together. And sometimes you really don't know until you experience it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What you are talking about is lust. There is a difference between love and lust.
Yes. But some people say that they are in love after sex.
I do not believe that having sex automatically defaults to being in love. Someone might say it because they are in the moment. True love is built over time and has very little to do with sexual activity.
I think like you too. Thanks for the answer 🙏🏻
You shouldn't ask if you're in love from others, you feel it. Love isn't just physical attraction. It's a feeling of feeling connected with someone emotionally as if your souls are bound together.
Although it's just a falsehood imposed on humans through chemicals in the brain to form pact with someone that derives from our primal desire of procreation.
I personally never experienced any such relationship between emotional and sexual attraction.
Indeed, those few who I have experienced emotional affection for I could do without sexually, and many of those I have found sexually attractive I had no emotional affection for.
It's probably not the norm, a lot of people do interconnect "love" and sexual attraction.
But since you believe sex and love are separate things, I think your case may be much like mine, and you will have no issues getting attached emotionally.
You don't believe that love exists because you have never experienced it. Start dating and it will happen.
You can't be affraid to love because you might lose that person, love is one of the best feelings in the world. Yes I've had my heart broken on more than one occasion but I'd rather that than have never experienced love.
Yes sex and love are 2 different things and you don't necessarily have to be in love with someone have sex with but you have to respect them.
If you stop yourself from loving someone because you are scared of loss then you will reach a time in your life where you have deep regrets about the things you never did.
I believe that love and sex are separate things as well. They are both enhanced by going together, but each are good on their own too.
You don't have to fall in love just because you had sex. You sound like you are prepared to not fall in love for sex alone, so you probably won't. Get on contraception and go find a partner.
Get laid
Don't worry, falling in love is better. No risk, no gain.
Love does exist, but it doesn’t come from just having sex. That’s just lust disguised as love.
I think lots of guys can help you out with that. Just be upfront and tell him what you want.
Don't have sex until you feel a deep connection
just buy a vibrator , it is safer , you can avoid dramas and heartbreak , also it feels better than real penis
I can't understand you. All I need is love. F*ck the sex.
I think cuddling is more likely to make you fall in love than sex. Cuddling with sex might be even more likely.
Go out and get some girl
What does it matter you don't have to be in love with everyone guy you have sex with
What is it that your looking. for
Thats your opinion find a f buddy
go masturbate and get it out of your system ffs
Its more than sex. Love can make us emotional but love isn't emotion
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