I don't know how to feel about this?

Ok so I’ma teenager please be respectful and kinda understand where I’m coming from. So this guy I’m friends with literally so negative he says stuff like ima slut and that’s what I’m worth then he says Stuff like he would Ask would I suck random guys dick etc and it’s so disgusting because why are you saying this to me and I ask him and he says “he’s just playing” etc etc like I don't know how to feel about this sometimes I play it off as funny and forget about it and then other times I just start falling apart inside fighting the urge to not cry and it’s very annoying how he tell other people my business how I lost my virginity to some loser guy like your literally a asshole and he brings it up and use it against me. I literally don’t wanna be by myself at school so I just stay in the group and act like everything is okay. Can Anybody in the comments can give me advice?
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  • Ask him how you heard the rumor that he moans when he takes it up his ass and when was the last time!

    Do this the next time he starts 'throwing shade'...
    those who seek prestige by betraying other's confidences RARELY can handle it when its THEIR turn to kill hearsay rumors.

    A WWII enlistment 'gay' test was the rubber-gloved finger up the Enlistee's butt... those innately anally-receptive... involuntarily relaxed their sphincter muscles to accommodate the penetration.
    When he denies it, demand publicly that he PROVES it!

    GAME, Set and Match! >:(

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  • My best advice. Please use your judgement. You don’t have to react with violence if this is just stupid name calling and there’s no overt threat. You really don’t and everything I’m advocating is standing up for yourself, not escalating anything to a point where there’s serious injury.

    Remember, words are just a reflection on what name callers feel about their own limitations. I know you don’t believe it but I’ve been in your shoes and walked that dreaded walk home.

    In my case. I simple told my parents about this. at first I was scared like you but finally got the courage and after that. everything went better, My friends did not ignore me in fact they were supportive. My bully just ignored me and changed for the better. If you get depression because of this guy. Then I think the best way is to tell your parents before it is too late.

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  • Stop hanging round with people that are losers

  • Explain to him that even though he says things as a joke they are still hurtful. Ask him to kindly not make jokes like that again. If he doesn't respect your wishes, find new people to hang out with.

  • Just change your group and be friends with who really understands you. It isn't his business to know how you lost your virginity. It was your choice. I think you made the right choice. he's just a boy, "a fuckboy", he's not mature enough to be a man to understand all this. Its so easy to call a "slut". You don't really know the person. Just stay away from these incompetent men. You are more than that

  • You need to tell your parents immediately! And if you to go to school together, you need to tell someone in charge! This is completely unacceptable and horribly rude.

  • Sounds like he is being a bully and that is NOT ok, If you can get your hands on a micro recorder or some other way of recording him without him knowing. record it and report it to the office with the recordings as evidence. most schools have a policy on bulling, you probably wouldn't need the recording but it would be a good thing to have IF extra proof is needed to convince administrators..

  • Go to him, punch him in the face.
    I dont recommend doing that but if it makes you feel better, do it
    First see if you can reason with him, if not. Fight back with "he is gay" accusation. It's not anything good to do but as Lincoln said, "its war, baby". Also why are you friends with such a toxic person? Toss his ass out

  • So you say to him (in private). “When you cal me a slut and things like that it hurts my feelings. I know you say it’s a joke, but I don’t find it funny. If you value me as a friend, I’m asking you to stop.” And if he doesn’t you end the friendship.

  • Keep your private life private and avoid assho! es and morons.

  • I mean this is stuff you have to deal with when you engage in casual sex. Try to only do things you're proud of people knowing instead of shameful things and then getting upset if people find out.

  • Report him on sexual harassment.

  • Sounds like some teen TV drama shit.

    Stop talking to that lame ass nigga.

    It's better to be a loner than to be friends with mfs who talk shit about you.

  • Agree with the other anon girl

  • Stop talking to him?