I don't wanna have sex with my boyfriend?

I care about him but im not attracted to him anymore. I don't wanna have sex with him. I don't even wanna kiss him or hug him at all and I feel uncomfortable when he touches me. He loves me a lot and he really doesn't like this situation. Do you think I should break up with him. Lately i fantasise about having sex with other men all the time.
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  • You should maybe break up its not fair for either one of you to hold on to something that's not there,, I'm single right now and would love to be in a relationship but being honest with myself I don't think It would be fair with the girl I like because all the hrs I put in and even then I don't thinkni ready I don't know what has happen to me but in the last past 5 months all I want to do is fuck please someone if I can feel your energy I want to fuck make love I want to please who ever it is it's crazy lol

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  • It would be better to break up with him. You'll only cause pain to both parties, and the relationship, by staying there, even if he can't realize it. Especially considering you're already fantasizing about having sex with other men. You'll end up giving in to temptation, because you'll be miserable, and he'll be miserable if you cheat on him, or when he notices that you're miserable with him. There is no future for a relationship like that

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  • I agree with the common sentiment here, you should break up.

    A solid relationship needs 3 things: trust, commitment, and attraction. Without the attraction, you just have a close friend.

  • Yes. Break up.

  • Sounds like its time to move on

  • What reason is there to remain in a relationship with him? You will both develop resentment for each other and a break up is inevitable.

  • Fair enough, then at least you know what to do or what to do to get it out of your system!

  • What's changed? You need to answer that first. Why were you attracted to him in the first place? Fantasizing about hotter guys is not going to help, are you even interested in helping the situation?
    The lack of info on the post, tells me you just want someone to back up you leaving.

  • Yeah, break up with him.

  • Yeah you should probably break up with him.

  • Yes. Break up

  • Bullshit.

  • Yep. Time to breakup

  • If you feel no real love or desire for him, I guess your relationship should end darling.

    Maybe you should find out why you fantasize about other men, and can't stand him touching you.
    This may help in the future with other relationships.

  • You should let him know you want to have sex with other guys. If he can accept that, then maybe you can have an open relationship. If not then move on and stop torturing yourselves

  • Why are you still with this guy? Its obvious the thrill is gone out of your relationship, so do him a favor and end it.

  • Yeah, you two are done.
    Break it off.

  • Yeah you need to break up if you do not like him any longer

  • Spare this poor guy and let him find a real woman.

  • Then why are you with him

  • What are you even doing with him then?

  • What is the reason of not liking him anymore if you accepted him as boyfriend? Is he not handsome or what?

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