I download feet pics from the social media pages of classmates and coworkers, is that weird?

[Anonymous]

So to state the obvious, I have a foot fetish and for a long time now whenever one the girls that I went to high school with or a former coworker posts a pic or story with her bare feet showing, I download and save them. I now have dozens of pics saved and I honestly love having them and never get tired of looking at them, I have actually had my favorite pics as my wallpaper on my computer or phone before. But I know that most would probably think that this is a weird and creepy thing to do. But what to you think, I do not share the pics with anyone or upload them, I keep them to myself.

[thenameless22]

Dude jerking off to them is one thing. But saving their photos to your device is really creepy.

That being said, if they don't want their photos to be used by creeps they shouldn't put them on the internet. Just a basic internet privacy thing. That doesn't make what you're doing any less creepy though.

[Billlewis]

I love it that you enjoy doing this! Like you, I have a very strong foot fetish, not only for women's feet, but for their boyfriends' feet, as well.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Foot Fetish seems to be more and more common nowadays.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah don't be doing that. It's creepy and stalking.

[Asker]

I can understand the creepy part. But how is it stalking if I don’t follow these women around and have no desire to do that?

[mandyfire98]

You can still cyber stalk them. Downloading their pics and using them sexually is a form of stalking.

[Asker]

Even if you mean no harm to them? I find that harder to believe because I’m only interested in their feet pics from social media, I wouldn’t even want to find them in person and try to discreetly take pics of their feet myself because I would think that would be incredibly creepy and predatory.

[mandyfire98]

It's still a form of stalking. Without their consent it's immoral.

[Asker]

So would you also consider it stalking if a girl downloaded pics of a hot guy she used to go to school or work with so that she could get off to them?

[mandyfire98]

Yep yep. It sure is.

[Asker]

I don't know, I just feel like a lot more people (especially men) do things like this than they let on so it may not be a good thing to do, it definitely isn’t uncommon.

[mandyfire98]

Still not good

[Asker]

I agree that its not good, but its honestly so hard to stop once you get started and I don’t think I could resist the urge to download a foot pic if one of them post one. I guess that since I liked their feet so much, I should’ve asked them out instead and eventually revealed that I had a foot fetish instead. That would’ve been better that just jerking it to pics of their feet after all.

[mandyfire98]

Sounds like obsession. That's a mental issue. Could need therapy.

[Asker]

Oh so now you think I’m mentally ill? Well if you must know, I’m in my 30’s and have no dating or sexual experience and honestly it does negatively affect a man’s mental health and you try to find ways to make masturbation more exciting since that’s all you have. I’ve also seen answers from you before on this site, you literally said that a man in his 30’s having no experience with dating or sex is a major red flag and that most women probably wouldn’t date a man because of that.

[mandyfire98]

Yes obsession is a mental issue. Look it up. It's called an obsessive compulsive disorder. It's a mental disorder.

[Asker]

Again, that’s all I have! You yourself even admitted that a man in his 30’s having no experience with women is extremely unappealing!

[Asker]

What’s your alternative if by your own admission, I’m too unappealing to be dated because of my lack of experience and what I’m doing now is creepy and obsessive so it needs to be stopped?

[mandyfire98]

Can you provide the exact question I said this in?

[Asker]

I can’t find it right now, but I remember what you said. You were saying that it can be a red flag because he doesn’t know how to handle a relationship with women or how romantic interactions even work and that intimacy with him would be rough since he would know nothing about it.

[mandyfire98]

Not handling a relationship can be a bad thing. It means that the guy doesn't know what a woman wants and relationships are not easy. They just aren't. So the more experience you have with knowing women and about women makes relationships easier. That's a proven fact. You need experience in everything you do. Nobody is just good at stuff the first time. That doesn't change the fact that you are taking pics of people you actually know behind their backs and masturbating to them. People who don't consent to that. If you want to watch porn then fine. Pornstars know people are watching their movies. They consent to it. Your classmates never did. If you think it's not wrong here's a test. Tell them you do it. If it's not wrong then they won't care. You won't though because you know it's bad. You know they'll freak out because it's wrong.

[Asker]

At least you’re someone who owns up to the fact that having no experience with women is generally seen as a negative, some try and walk it back when called out on saying that the lack of experience is a bad thing. But again, I am now in an impossible and inescapable situation because by your own admission, most women view inexperienced men negatively and you need experience to be good in a relationship like you just said. Women will not give men without experience a chance, therefore he cannot get experience ever and is left with nothing but masturbation so he tries to make it exciting and starts masturbating to pics of women he knows. I don’t even talk to the women who’s feet pics I save and haven’t in several years so there’s no point in me telling someone I no longer have contact with and might not even remember me anyway.

[Asker]

If you were sexless and knew that no one would give you a chance because you don’t already have experience, something that is beyond your control, then maybe you could see this my way.

[AviatorTom]

Sounds like you have a foot fetish. It's unusual, but many people have one.

[Wonderingguyy]

Yes it is weird, but what fetish isn’t weird? Just as long as you remain respectful and don’t post or share pictures that aren’t yours, you’re good

[Nikki1989]

If only 5% of this is true, you need therapy.

[Asker]

It is 100% true. You really think its that bad?

[jahaims]

You know the answer

[EaterPeter]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Whatever you do in private is celebrated in public. if you are hiding this then it's damaging your self esteem and creating shame.

[Anonymous]

I laughed at the replies. lol

You were the villain, but not the girls posting the pics. lol People are so stupid.