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Sexual Health I fake an orgasm so that my boyfriend doesn’t know I can’t cum from just penetration. 80% of women can’t, so what do the rest of you do?
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You realize you are only screwing yourself (for lack of a better term) by faking your orgasms, right? What a great way to guarantee lousy sex. And guess what? We can tell when you are faking.
Teach him how to make you cum. He isn't gonna learn this if you keep faking it
That reminds me. :)
Mature men do care, immature men only want their nut. My man always makes sure he pleases me first
Tell your boyfriend to man up, and let you use what ever it is you need.
😂😂😂😂 that is so dishonest. It’s probably easier then dealing with the whining though.
I would have thought they would probably orgasm from penetration!
The majority of women have very little sensation from penetrative sex. It is all dependent on the distances between the clitoris and vaginal hole. If they’re closer together (20% of women), a woman has a high level of sensation from penetration. The level of sensation the 80% have differs, but it is not enough to make them cum
Having studied human biology as part of my degree, I'm naturally already very familiar indeed with this. However I was purely answering your question, based on what the 20% of women would achieve.
This is what the study suggests. Apparently it is due to how the female body develops pre-birth.
Curious what you mean by just penetration. You two take clothes off. You split your legs open? He makes himself hard. You lie there, he push his dick in, till he hurts you? Then you pretend to cum? That way 💯 women will not get an orgasm. At 22, I had no idea how the whole orgasm love making works. And I too believe I was one of those 20% who wasn’t able to orgasm.
Either play with yourself or have him do it. Not a big deal.
i like to bring in toys to spice it up too. some guys get intimidated but not me heh
You should just speak to him about it and get him to do the things that do make you orgasn too. We do want to make it pleasurable for you and make you orgasn for real you know.
I hate women like this… guys ain’t so soft you can’t tell us we’re failing. Guidance might actually make it more enjoyable to you… pretending only exhausts you, confuses us when your pissed we’re not doing a good job and we don’t know why your pissed, and bulls bad habits and lies.
This is why facts are more important then feelings. Never spare facts for feelings. Consider feelings but not at the cost of the truth…
Your last paragraph is gold.
The women I’ve known have been just like you. I think you are safe in a majority, from my standpoint.
Why would you fake it rather than telling him so he can help get you off? I'm sure he wants to.
LMAO, I have faked it every single time I Have had sex. Most women can't orgasm. This is true. I have never told a partner this in my entire life. HOWEVER, once I had random sex with someone and weirdly, I orgasmed. But it was the only time in my life that I did.
Omg how clueless u have to be
Wow, this is pathetic.
While he is penetrating rub your clit. This will ensure both of you cum and he will be turned on knowing you are doing it.
@paige90 🥵🥵🥵 Its amazing 😚😚😚😚
So instead of faking it why not just teach him
Why don't you just tell him? That's very common. I had a partner who could not. it wasn't a problem, if I finished before her, I would use my hand or a vibrator or whatever she wanted to reach a climax. It was the best sex of my life.
I am close toward 100% giving a girl oral. Fingering, 100%. You just have to now what you are doing and how she responds.
That is so sad. Why not educate him in what gets you to orgasm. Maybe some manual stimulation during penetration? Show him what pleasures you... I'm sure he'll appreciate it.
Rub my clit or get him to eat me out first or both
That number don't seem right but it is true that some woman can't have an orgasm by penatration alone. Honestly and that is mostly the answer to this, you need to be fully open and honest with him. If he truly loves you then he will want to learn how to give you pleasure as well. If he brushes it off and don't even bother with trying to learn how to give you orgasms as well then you should probably find someone better.
There was a study conducted by the Univerisry of Manchester, UK that proved this statistic
Studies like that are a bunch of hogwash. I have had 100's if not 1000's if partners and granted I usually make them cum in many different ways but I would notice if 80% couldn't cum from penatration.