I fantasize about having a penis? Is this normal?

Whenever I masturbate, I masturbate to the girl and I imagine that I'm screwing her with my penis. I could care less what he looks like. At the end of porn videos, I don't even remember what he looks like because all I did was focus on her and her body. I'm not attracted to girls however. Being a lesbian sounds boring to me and I'm not attracted to girls I'm attracted to guys. I like having sex with penetration but I don't like it when he gets me doggystyle. I'm not sure if that's just a body issue/ self esteem issue or what.. but it just doesn't feel right. I know I'm not gay or bi but I think it's strange that this happens. I wish i had a penis sometimes. I like giving blowjobs too
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Whoa i get you. I am not gay at all but i watch gay porn more. I see myself getting the blow job or hand job mentally. I put myself in the guys spot. I dont believe i am gay though just because i am a guy and the two men doing know what they want sexually. Only thinking on a physical level anything turn my penis hard. Someones hand it does not matters who. I do think women are beautiful and i would never want sex with a dude just i put myself there despute who is pleasuring me physically.

  • I wouldn't say that it's necessarily "normal", but I don't think it's really all that strange, either. It's just something you're curious about, because you don't get to experience it.

    I'd let you borrow mine for a day, if I could, just so you could try it out, lol. :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe you're turned on by the idea of having sexual power and dominance?

    • But when I'm on top of him cowgirl style, I could care less and I'm not turned on at all because all the attentions on me

  • It's normal, the whole sexuality thing isn't so black and white

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  • LOL... do u dislike being female? just guessin :)

    • I'm not girly and in someways I do dislike it.

    • tomboy then?

  • Idk? Is it normal that it wouldn't bother me if u had one or not? Cuz I'd still bang...

  • IF you don' care what the guy looks like, then you're not attracted to guys.

    • In porn videos. In real life, I am. I have crushes, boyfriends, hookups. In porn I don't care what they look like

    • ... That's confusing.

    • I don't know either

  • Simply you could be lesbian :D

  • That's weird, i never wanted to have pussy.

    • Most guys want pussy all the time.

    • I meant never wanted to have pussy, I'm happy with my dick.

  • Enjoy your fantasies. Embrace them. They are a part of you. The wonderful thing about masturbation is that it allows us the opportunity to explore our sexuality in a state of *total* freedom. That freedom is a gift. Feel free to be exhilarated by your thoughts of having a penis. Explore and *play* in that realm of your imagination. I'm a bisexual male academic who recently had a very productive and healthy discussion with my wife about my desire for penis and my passionate play with dildos. I was inspired to come out by my adult, college-aged daughter, who spoke with me about strong desires that are very similar to yours. I hope that revelation inspires you in turn. #ENJOYYourMasturbation, and take good care...

    -Dr. Fitz

  • how do you picture your penis.. big small average>? circumcised, uncut> ? jw

  • I can understand that. I'm straight, and the thought of being with a guy makes me want to puke (nothing against gays by the way, they're a cool bunch). But, I do fantasize about penetration and wonder what it's like. I think it's probably pretty natural to be curious about the other sex's sexual experiences.

  • That's abnormal

  • It's not normal, but who cares?