I feel awkward watching hardcore sex scenes with boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I have no idea why, but I feel super embarrassed and weird sitting next to my boyfriend while he watches bascially porn. Is this normal?

[btbc92]

Why are you even tolerating This? He's showing and telling you what kind of person he is: sex obsessed. And he's trying to feed it into you when he already knows that is not who you are. Dump the guy if I was you. I don't like those kinds of guys. There is nothing for you go be awkward about. This is for you to weed out and set boundaries. You hate it. Tell him. if he doesn't respect you, end it. You tell them about this tbey sadly ignore you. And the toxic women or should I say females, tells you to "get over it".

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Yes you don’t have to be into watching porn with him that’s completely fine, you don’t have to force yourself to like something you don’t especially sexual stuff that could later turn to shame and regret.

[JackSmy]

Maybe share your Porn, and the things you like, when you masturbate, with him!! He might like something really new and different, like the things you like!!

[Asker]

I do not watch porn nor have many fantasies.

[JackSmy]

Sorry to have tried to help. . .

[AustinMan]

At first a little bit is normal but forget he's there for a bit and get into the scene. Do you like porn?

[Asker]

Not at all.

[AustinMan]

Your reaction is perfectly normal. It takes some getting used to. I'd try to get into it for some time and see how you fare.

[concrete]

Do you two have sex? Because it does seem a bit strange if he decides to watch porn instead of having sex with you

[Asker]

Not actual porn- but movies or shows that have HARDCORE sex scene. GoT for example..

[concrete]

Ok yeah, that makes sense. if it makes you uncomfortable he should probably watch something else while you're around

[MandaFanta]

Why? Best chance to get started 😉

[Asker]

Meaning what?

[COMMODOREII]

@MandaFanta i don't think she gets it. Lol

[MandaFanta]

Nevermind girl, look up Netflix and chill 🤭

[COMMODOREII]

👍😂😎

[Asker]

I get what you mean. Im aware of that term. I dont get turned on by watching that stuff nor do I really have the desire to. Its more of the fact that I feel awkward knowing he is watching other girls getting fucked and he probably loves it. A little immature in my opinion I guess.

[COMMODOREII]

No very immature and insecure to think a sex scinsecuremake your boyfriend not want you or go with another girl.

[Asker]

I never said that. I personally think sex is supposed to be sacred and private. And when its blasted all over television- its a little cringy and awkward ESPECIALLY when watching it with a guy (whom is visually stimulated.)

[MandaFanta]

Even I like them sometimes, I know you may not like it but he does, my point is you could use it to your advantage that's all

[Asker]

My thoughts on that is- if he is watching somthing thats turning him on, how sure is it that he will actually be thinking of me? More in likely he will be thinking of the thing that got him turned on in the first place. Its like scratching and itch

[Asker]

If i were to "use it to my advantage"

[MandaFanta]

Because he will get turned on, he won't care about the people having sex, he's going to want to have sex himself with you.

[MandaFanta]

You're over thinking this trust me

[Asker]

Okay thank you

[COMMODOREII]

thanks for clearing that up @MandaFanta it sucks the guy is being judged by a sex scene and he didn't do anything wrong.

[MandaFanta]

@COMMODOREII 😉😉

[AmeerX]

I think it is okay just try to be more confident

[GreenGold1992]

Not awkward, but probably not enough to get you in the mood

[asshole_]

Good, you should

[Jmmmfi4]

Don't know

[Anonymous]

Yeah that would be awkward