I feel awkward when my boyfriend watches porn with me?

[Anonymous]

I don't watch porn, but he'll randomly start watching it and watch it with me. I sound like a selfish bitch, but I get weirdly jealous when he gets turned on by random girls who are attractive instead of me. It just doesn't turn me on at all, and I feel a little envious of them/their looks since the videos he watches usually have chicks with amazing boobs and I just have small ones. Should I tell him I feel awkward when he makes me watch it, or should I just continue to watch it with him? I've literally closed the laptop before because I wanted him to stop. Sorry if I sound like a psycho lol.

[Anonymous]

Typical response women have.
What you feel is the same way men feel when you force us to watch a chick flick and say stuff like "I wish you were more like that" or "I wish you would do those things"
It's putting false expectations of your fantasy on to us which we can not live up to.
The difference though, is women are the reason for both these false expectations...
Women literally push their false expectations of romance and "love" and emotional fantasy onto us, we don't watch it and think to ourselves "Oh I wish I could be more like that" ourselves.
Women also see other women and instantly compare themselves to the other female and assume we are doing the same. Women compare themselves to other women, men don't compare you to other women. Yes other women may be attractive and this form of fantasy may turn him on, but he does not correlate it with you. He does not look at her and say "I wish you looked more like that" or "I wish you would do that"... we separate our fantasy from our reality. A lot of times we would actually be grossed out if our partners did some of the stuff we liked to watch.

If you have a problem with his fantasy, then you should let him know that it isn't your thing, and then also be understanding and not force him to watch your fantasy.
Trying to force him to stop watching his fantasy because YOU are uncomfortable with it, it wrong though and he shouldn't feel ashamed or guilty for it. He should just respect that it's not something he needs to share with you.

[EarthToKepler]

You don't sound crazy.. You sound like a human

You should tell him not to watch it infront of you because the way it makes you feel

Also most girls tits in porn are fake (from what I've seem) I'd have a flat chested girl over a fake tit'd girl anyday

Just talk to him about it

Its abit disrespectful of him to watch it infront of you anyway

Bend his dick make him cry like a little bitch

[BoOmBoM]

if he keeps forcing you to watch it, tell him you feel uncomfortable as you don't like it... and hate watching having sex... if he still does it and not care about what you feel.. I advice you to break up with him.. he's not worth it if he doesn't care about your side of feelings...
:) good luck with this and best wishes

[LencicOo]

I feel the same way... well i never watched that with him but the thought of him watching those girls makes me feel envious of them.. its like he doesn't need me... its totally normal to feel that way and if u feel so awkward you should not discuss about that with him...

[LencicOo]

You should discuss ** sorry mistake

[nymous1234]

So just randomly he will wana watch porn and expect you to participate? no prior discussion? lol that is a bold crazy idea on his part and very awkward. I agree.
But do you have a problem with him watching porn on a whole or just watching ti with you.

[Asker]

Nah I'm fine with him watching it when I'm not there I know like all guys and girls do it lol I just don't like when I'm there too.

[Memora]

It's normal just tell him how you feel about it I mean it's weird enough he makes you watch it with him

[DarkHumorRUs]

So tell him, holy shit, you're his girlfriend for fuck's sake.

[FakeName123]

Communication is great. And that means actually talking about whats important and not gossiping about some other girls which he most likely will not listening to full-hearted anyway, but pretends he is out of niceness.

[MichaelJoseph89]

Just comment on how you wish you could get fucked by a man with a dick that big. HAHA