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I feel bad about turning 30?

I feel like I have no value and the fact I'm a virgin. Worst over I'm average looking but have good skills.
What should I do to feel better about this?
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  • I honestly don't think you have anything to worry about. However, it clearly is affecting you so maybe try to do somethings that boost self confidence. Dress up when you go out, maybe have a spa day that you get your nails and hair done, etc. Just do little thinks that might boost your self-confidence/self-image in your eyes. As a photography geek, I would suggest maybe even do a little photoshoot. Some fun, flirty clothes and a decent photographer and you can have some nice fun photos to share. If you even want to go the extra mile... and only do this for yourself... try a boudoir photoshoot. Just have a female photographer or if its a guy, make sure a female assistant is present. And of course that kind of shoot is only what you make it. You don't have to do a full nude type shot either. But I know lots of people who have done those and found it one of the biggest confidence boosters they've ever had. So from one end of the spectrum to the other you can do a few things like that for yourself. Just remember though that you are you and that is the only beautiful you need. So don't worry about being a virgin. That makes you valuable. And your value is not in what others think so remember you are priceless and own it!

Most Helpful Guy

  • Understandable concern, but at that age you should start thinking about children, not just sex.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyBiologicalClockIsTicking

    • I don't desire children

    • Then from biological standpoint it does not matter if you stay virgin. :)

    • I just want a husband and grow old with him. If guys want that.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It’s ok, you are not turning 100. You still have time to turn it around. Set goals, make changes. You can do it!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You should be HAPPY! As many women at your age they "give it away" to some "ungrateful guy" and then regret it for some long period of time! So just think of you as a Pure Girl/Woman, that she is still hold on to her VALUES...🌹🌹🌹

  • Wild. Go fuck someone. Get that out of the way then go live your life!

  • Do nothing. Wait until you get older and you stop caring about getting older. That's exactly why I look forward to getting 30-40, I'll be much more mature mentally but still strong physically. But maybe there is different between the genders and you need a woman to give you the wisdom you need.

  • I'm a rather average looking guy. who's looking for a more average looking female partner. so if you want to chat some time let me know.

  • I'm sure you are beautiful and are just being hard on yourself. It may make you feel better about yourself if you go for a makeover to have your hair, makeup, and wardrobe professionally done. If you see most movie stars without their makeup and hair done they look average. Some things that attract a partner are personality, sense of humor, laugh, sense of adventure, passion, caring, and intelligence. Just be yourself.

  • no clue i'm in the same boat kinda. Actually with cold weather and pandemic and homework all just perfect storm of fatigue

  • No you shouldn't think that way. All age are beautiful

  • Whenever I feel like crap about getting older I usually buy something that I know is gonna get a lot of use, or I make something that I know will take a long time to make.

  • I would highly suggest talking to a therapist they can help!

  • Stop feeling sorry for yourself!
    Confident girls are the sexiest kind of girl.

  • I am virgin too lets know eachother 😘😁😁

  • Don't even worry about it, it's perfectly fine to be a virgin at 30. You have value, you just have to find where and how to put that value to use.

  • hey!
    i can underatand and i do respect becouse u are still virgin. by the way my name is moody😉

  • How long have you been single now?

    • Quite a while.

    • How long specifically? Or are you not comfortable disclosing that?

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