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I feel guilty for leaving him?

He was more than fair and was really nice but he wouldn't be sexual with me not till I would make the first move and if I don't make the first move he simply wouldn't touch me at all. But overall he would give me permission to do whatever I wanted and was more than fair in sharing his money. But he would hate the fact going out to a restaurant or eat out together he hated doing that and hated going on dates but rather stay home all day and prefer to order take out and watch a movie. He hated dressing up and would not shower or keep proper hygiene. And he didn't like the way I dressed or did my make up he hated that I wore black and wanted me to wear fruity colorful things it was not my taste at all. . but he was really nice out of all the guys I knew and I feel guilty for leaving him. What should I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You need to put your foot down and make him understand that ina relationship there are compromises and each of you have to make some. He needs to keep himself clean and ocasionally take you out and you need to add some color in your wardrobe every now and then. If you both can sacrifice a bit then a relationship can go a long way but if none of you are willing to do that then sadly, it doesn't make sense to stay together.

    • Well I would wear fruity things but he didn't care

    • That means he is taking you for granted, excuse my bluntness but you need to leave him, see how he does for a few days maybe a couple of weeks, if he cares for you and is willing to change he will call otherwise its best if you part. If only one side keeps making sacrifices then slowly the realtionship will turn toxic.

    • No matter how much money you get, as human beings being social animals, its the company we live among that give up happiness not riches.

  • well i know how it feels to get left my ex cheated on me cuz my sex drive adhd and i was way to nice and even more of a shy bug of being seen naked i have not found a girl to this day been 15 years and 15 years with out sex good thing i am able to use toys

Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't feel guilty. Sounds like a fruity no sexual gay guy who was unusually dirty. Move on now.

    • Thanks, dear.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You did the right thing.

  • He’s your best so far? You have way better options still out there if this guy was your best so far. That’s still fairly bottom rung stuff.

  • The part about the hygiene did it for me!
    Stay as far away as you can. Find yourself a man that knows how to make a woman, feel like a woman. You can do way better than that.
    If he can’t respect himself, he’s never going to respect you!

  • Dont feel guilty as his behavior isn't normal

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