I feel like a loser for being a virgin at 18?

Question

So i struggle with a lot og social anxiety (it has gotten better over the years), and i really feel like it’s the biggest reason to why I’m still a virgin. Because of this issue, i feel like the biggest loser. So, do y’all have any advice to What the f**k i could…that Does not include a prostitude?

blank_expression · Accepted Answer

This is a self-feeding thing going on here. You have social anxiety but then compound it with your perceived smv for instance. Do not be fussy and just go ugly if necessary to break the hold and yes do go prostitute if that works. There are old stories from some old timers, one that said his dad took him to a “whorehouse” to break him in something similar to a horse.

Hawner · Accepted Answer

Do not consider yourself a loser for such an unimportant reason. Being virgin at 18 is not a bad thing, nor something to be ashamed of. The right one will come in its due time.
Focus on recovering your self esteem and confidence, that is what is important.

ButterflyHope · Accepted Answer

Your not a loser for being a virgin at 18. My cousin is still a virgin at the age 30, by choice.
Who cares what people think, it’s your body your choice. Do whatever you want with it.
I think your being too hard on yourself about this, you only think your “loser” for it because you keep telling yourself it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm 22 f and a virgin loser too. It's more common than you think (especially in guys)

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Nah. It won't matter what anyone tells you, the only person who can make you NOT feel like a loser by still being a virgin at 18 is you.

Celtero · Answer

The problem is you care too much what other people think. People's opinion does not matter to your existence. I'm a virgin at 25, and anyone who says that's a problem can clean my anus with their tongue.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Despite what society would have you think, it's extremely normal and common for people to still be virgins in their late teens, early and even mid 20s.