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I feel like I have no purpose except for whoring around?

I’m 20, I’m a very attractive woman but I just get sexualised a lot allll the time by everyone. I’ve even had jobs where the manager was just a creep and fired me for not wanting to go on a date with him and saying that I don’t want him to pick me up from work. and my other jobs even McDonald’s I’d be a cashier and I’d always get men just trying to flirt which also alwyas got me intro troubles as the manager thought I was the one holding up the drive through line being slow lol.

Anyway I’m currently unemployed and have been for like 1 month and a half and I’m looking for a job but no where is replying to me. It’s making me sad. I have so much experience but no one is replying to me at all. It’s making me want to make a only fans or something. Every guy I speak to only ever wants sex, they always wanna make sex tapes and they talk to me as if I’m some personal porn star so it’s making me think why am I doing this for free?

I don’t want a job exploiting myself such as stripping but they seem to be the only jobs replying and that are easy to get due to how I look? Do I just grab a job like this or will this affect my future and how men see me. I’m not DESPERATE for money I have like 1k savings but I’m really bored and it’s affecting me mentally.

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11 mo
It’s also making me think maybe it’s meant to be that I’m just meant to have some sort of sex job since everyone treats me this way and no other jobs reply. It’s making me very depressed.
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  • If the idea of doing something makes you depressed then doing will surely make you even more depressed no? 😃 this is your life and you can do what YOU want with it, find your dream, the thing that makes you feel alive and make you want to wake up in the morning, and if you are already depressed and can’t see what it is then focus on fixing the issues in your life (like find a reasonable way to be independent, move out of town or something) but surely you don’t HAVE to go on Only Fan women have many options these days lol

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  • It will alter how people see you, but it probably won't affect your future unless you go into a job where there's a lot of exposure and you are easily noticeable. Like if you do a lot of porn and approach the success of Jenna Jameson (seeing as she's the most sucessful ever, that's unlikely) or such, then a job that requires respect will be harder to come by. Yet stripping doesn't give you a ton of national exposure, while porn and OnlyFans can. Also you only make a lot of money through OnlyFans if you promote it well, which will affect your future. If you are bored and just want to do something, try volunteer work. I don't know how easy it is to get now, but before COVID-19 it was easy. I started a summer volunteer thing in 2106 or 2017 and became full time because I just decided not to leave after the summer was over. I actually increased my hours. A lot of retired people volunteeer (or used to before COVID-19), becasue it gets them to do something out of the house

  • When you are very pretty, people are going to lust over you. If that bothers you, a sex worker job is the worst idea. And yes, it can negatively effect your future in both relationships, and careers.

    Porn stars and cam whores are usually stuck with those jobs until they retire, and they tend to have a very shallow dating pool (or no dating pool if they get stds).

    I think perhaps you should focus on what kind of job you would actually enjoy, maybe even start a business?

    As far as being bored, thats what hobbies are for. What do you actually like doing? Be it a job or a hobby?

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  • Do you know how to say Fuck off? The guys the sexualize you, tell them to go fuck themselves. I'm not your personal whore. I'm not a pornstar. If you're only here to fuck then go fuck yourself.

  • This is just a phase, stay strong to your convictions and see if maybe there are some friends or family that could help you out.

  • You must be interested in something. Something that makes you whole. Try something different, instead of working on stores or fast food chains. That would help you gain experience in a particular career. You should focus on your studies if you haven't been doing that lately

    • Also start being a bitch and turning every guy down who flirts with you, who just wants to have sex and treats you with no respect.

    • I am really interested in caring for people so I’ve always wanted like a care home job or nursing or working with kids. Although I just get very emotionally attatched to people so the job would affect me a whole lot if something were to happen with the nursing patient. I mean I’ve applied for a lot of nursery assistant but I’m still waiting to hear back, and yes i am going to start being a bitch and stop being so nice lol

    • If thats what makes you feel happy, go for it. Just be patient. I am sure you will hear back from someone. I hope you get what you are looking for. Good luck

  • What do you want to do as a career? Not asking about sex carrer. You sound smart and probably a good worker. Many places around here are hiring, especially where I work. Look online and apply everywhere you might want to work. Everything is online now.

  • Sorry you’re feeling this way. It’s all in your own personal attitude. I get where you’re coming from but sounds like you need to read some motivational books and get your mind thinking bigger. Who cares what others think. Go do you! Stop dating losers and find something who’s real. If you start stripping etc yes it will effect how people think of you for the rest of your life. What career do you want? Go to school and get a degree. Hold your head up high.

  • Lol, do you have an education?

    • Yeah I did very well in school I got 3 A stars and passed English and main subjects but I feel like when I apply for jobs they don’t even look at that on my CV

    • What are your skills? What do you bring to an employer?

  • Are you sad because you can't find a job or because lots of guys hit on you? Or both?

  • just get a job as a hostess or waitress at a nice place, they need attractive women. Mcdonalds is not where you belong

  • So, do what 20 something girls does, start an OF account and start "Sugaring".

  • Have you considered going to college?

  • sadly i think a lot of people just want sex and tbh i want both but won't happen in my life

  • An intelligent woman would get a job even if she's attractive. if you are not productive but you're hot you're sexualized. So you are not intelligent. You should work at hooters

  • Then stop whoring around and find a cause to believe in.

    • I don’t know what cause to believe in though. I mean I’m really good with kids and I’ve always been told that I’m meant to do something like that and I’d love to but no one replies lol

    • Try taking a chance and see how it goes. And what do you mean, no one replies?

    • As in when I apply online for the job role I don’t seem to get any response

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