I feel like shit for having such low standards and developing feelings for a loser, trash of a man?

I am genuinely disappointed in myself. He was such a Low Quality Man. Ew. I regret sexting with him (thank god i didn't send pics). He was obviously an insecure, nasty dweeb. I was going through a rut and couldn't see clearly.

How do you get over feelings of self-disgust/shame at having lowered your standards for someone?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe you should think of it this way before you say something like that. What if he said the same about you. You're ugly and a very low quality female. You have no intelligence to keep a man. You have no fashion sense and wear makeup to cover up your skin blemishes such as acne or scars that can't ever go away. Thank God he felt confident enough to send pictures because he is secure while you are insecure how you look hiding in makeup and baggy cheap clothes from a thrift store.

    Don't hide behind anonymous and go on a rant about how a guy looks to make yourself feel better about how you look. Its another form of bullying. Grow up and stop being so self-centered and egotistical. Its people like you who make others grow up and feel shame for who they are. Now, get off your high horse and grow up!

    • It wasn’t his looks you idiot. He was passable/average. It was his sleazy, nasty, rude, and crassy attitude.

    • All of that is the same you moron. Low quality person still equals feelings/look in a form of writing. Maybe you should get back to college and learn how to write before you go off on someone and hide behind anon. You still just had a form of bullying. You're real big hiding on anon.

  • go sext a high quality male

Most Helpful Girls

  • Forgiveness! I cannot stress that enough, forgive yourself! We are human, and we’re going to fumble the ball sometimes (or a lot of times, for some lol) but you can’t live in your mistake. You recognize and acknowledge where you went wrong, which is more than a lot of people can are willing to do. Now, all you can do is take what you learned from that situation, apply that knowledge to the future and keep moving forward.

  • I just shake myself from it, try to think of other things and pull myself together. Then I just keep going on with my life.

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  • You got off easy... least you wasn't married lol

  • I feel you. Well i would just make him disappear.

  • Get up tomorrow morning and look in the mirror and see a beautiful, classy gal, who has a lot to offer a nice guy.
    Forget about what happened, and MOVE ON!
    If it becomes obsessive, you might need to see a good shrink!

  • Was he a gentleman from the QAnon community?

  • Your horny bored in pandemic people aren't themselves not to worry

  • You erase it from your mind and use care next time

  • It happens. I've done much worse.

  • Sometimes I do things in the heat of the moment.. mainly when I am horny... jerking off on cam or sexting with someone. I do feel shame sometimes for certain acts... I brush it off and move on. Life is too short

  • So you actaully want sympathy, and you're on here bashing a man that you chose to sext.. No sympathy for you.. I knew most women were hateful, but just wow..