I feel needy after masturbation?

Why is this happening? I have the time of my life during masturbation. The orgasms feels like heaven sent but 30 minutes / 1 hour later I start feeling needy. How do I stop this?
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  • I don't believe you can actually stop it. You're actually doing it to yourself. When you masturbate you're flooding your body with endorphins, because sex feels amazing and it you're stimulating your body, even if you are by yourself, and causing your body to feel the arousal and stimulation of sex; this also causes a chemical change in your brain as well. Therefore, after you come down off the 'high' of your orgasm, your body internally turns towards feeling the need of the emotional and mental connect that comes generally with sex and sexual activities. It is a natural part of the process.

    • It sucks

    • It does suck, I agree, but since it is a natural process there isn't really anything you can do to stop it, besides accepting that's what you're going to feel when you masturbate. You can perhaps lessen the feeling by snuggling with something close to you and holding it in your arms. It may 'trick' your brain and body functions into believing you're getting that emotional and mental connection it is craving. It is a short term fix until you can find the real thing.

    • Have you ever felt this way?

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  • It's it comes out of 'was it really worth it' feeling? anyway it's common to have mix feeling about it, on one hand you are now satisfied, on the other hand it might feels little empty/meaningless at this point, as you have no more desire for it, for the time being. I think that you should learn to deal with the negative feeling after it, as you know that in the next time is would be okey once more, and in the end of the day, you didn't sacrifice anything for it, because it's an masturbation, and not sex.

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  • Distract yourself.. I find distraction by listening to music or by playing a game.. Just get out your house.. Take a walk

  • if you want to keep feeling that high sensation. i suggest you try drugs like heroin or crack. masterbation is a really cheap thrill. it should never take the place of being with another human being. when you orgasm your brain releases endorphins dopamine and thats that high you feel. when your blood normalises, you have that crash feeling. two choices you have. find a man? or get on drugs lile crack or heroine

  • Its to be needy

  • By trading in your hands for a man who will cuddle with you after he makes you come.

  • I'm no expert, but I agree with the others. I think it's because you feel the need/wish you weren't by yourself. I get the same way most of the time after I masturbate. It isn't much fun after a while when it's by yourself.

  • Because you are often getting horny not necessarily because you have to be horny, but rather because it is a sign that your body sends that "Your vagina, but also your heart needs someone inside your life"

    Thus once the arousal subsides, the realisation of something missing comes up since you aren't distracted anymore.

    • I got me close to tears

    • Sounds like you are pretty lonely. And you get aroused quite regulary and once you are finished with yourself you realise that you are lonely.

    • I'm away from home living by myself, I can't connect with people here cause I have to work and go to college so yeah you can say I'm pretty lonely

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  • "Join the Club" sister. I'm single & feel the need to masturbate 4 or 5 limes a day.

  • This is normal for you cause your younger. I use to feel guilty as hell when I would masturbate. Your going to have tell yourself I'm doing this, everyone
    masturbates why should i feel guilty?

    • I don't feel guilty at all, I just feel needy

    • Awe okay :-D

  • You need someone to cuddle after masturbating

    Invite a close friend over before you masturbate so that when you're finished you have someone there in a reasonably short amount of time after

    You're lonely

  • at least you feel needy. i feel so disgusted. like how could i

    • really? why?

    • i dont know most guys do its a weird after effect.

  • start having actual sex.

    • Once I find a man.

    • find a good one.

    • I'll try, thanks.

  • You mean needy for another orgasm?

  • I needy a nap after masturbation

  • we all are like you, sex urge never finish. just for hours only.

  • Dont feel bad me too

  • Haaaaa only on gag

  • it's lonely, masturbating by yourself

  • Like u feel like u have to cum again after already cumming once?

    • No, I think she means she feels needy for an emotional connection or something. Which would come from being with a partner during and after sex.

    • @StolenUsername that was my second guess. :-)