I feel slightly disrespected after my roommate had sex and I could hear everything?

I live in university halls. There are a couple of rooms in the halls that have shared study areas- basically you walk through a door into a room where there are 2 desks , and in this room there are 2 more doors- me and my roommates bedrooms. The walls separating us are very thin and I can hear majority of things she does and she must be able to with me. Last night I was in bed at 3 am when I heard her and a boy living down the corridor come in after they had been out clubbing. I heard them kissing then I started hearing her moaning. Basically I heard everything and I was uncomfortable and I feel abit disrespected. I’m a religious person too. It would be obvious to her that I would be able to hear them, I don’t know why they didn’t go in his room that didn’t have someone right next to them. What do you guys think of this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's her room, she can do whatever she wants in it, as long as she respects common areas. You need to be tolerant. You may be religious but she might not. When you are doing it you normally don't realise if you are being loud or not. It's not like she is playing music super loud every night and stuff. You need to get used to it, that's what it means sharing your place with someone. I feel disrespected when I'm in the same room (like in a trip and you are sharing a room) and two people start going at it, then it bothers me, but she was in her area, door closed and everything so I don't think you should feel offended.

  • Same thing happened with my roommate - just ask her to maybe keep it down when she engages in those kind of activities

Most Helpful Guys

  • They may have been too drunk to care or may not have known howxloid they were being. I was in a dorm once and we heard the bed springs in the room next to us creaking at about 1 am. My roommate banged on the wall and yelled "We all know what you're doing, and it's one in the fucking morning and I want to sleep." I was across the room from the wall and could easily hear. I imagine it was worse for him because he was right up against the wall.

  • Welcome to life in the halls. You of course can say something but I doubt it'll have any positive effect.

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  • It's her room. Welcome to uni

  • I'm not sure what to say honestly apart from asking to next time not be so loud not sure there is much you can do you being religious is irrelavent to it also just because you may abstain from pre-marital sex dont mean she has to also

  • I think you need to grow up and get over it. People fuck. It’s normal

  • Prepare yourself... this is how living in University halls is going to be.

  • Is she hot? That's all that matters.

  • What makes u depressed about it babe should get turned on get sex aswell or masturbate to them cam sex with someone xx

  • You can go and fuck someone too