I feel so ashamed of myself for masturbating to my best friend’s sister’s dirty bra, underwear and towel. Am I the biggest pervert you ever heard of?

Question

I was having a sleep over at my friend’s house and we were swimming. He has an older sister that is hot. She took a shower after and when she was done, she left all her clothes in the bathroom everywhere. I couldn’t resist. I jacked off in there to her underwear and bra. I smelled her towel because it was still wet. After I was done, I felt like the biggest creep ever known. I got away with it and nobody knows.

juniperyes · Accepted Answer

In India, this was common.
I have noticed that my bra/panties (which are folded in my draw) move their positions when some of the younger cousins visit.
When I told about this to an older girl-cousin of mine, she said boys do this all the time.
She said, most of the time boys will just look and touch and put it back.
She mentioned her panties would vanish from the cloth line one day and would reappear the next day.
She didn't like it.
But, she said, it is way better than boys who try to touch us inappropriately when we go out.
:-(

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

They had a video camera in there. It will be shown online so you didn't get away with squat.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

No dude, you're not anywhere close to the biggest pervert I've come across. Not even close.

In fact, I would even go so far as to say that you probably aren't even a creep. Although... yea... It's a creepy thing to do. Your biggest redeeming quality here, I think, is your reaction to this.

Now, I want to be super-clear. To me the only thing wrong with this is the sneaky, non-consensual aspect of it.

I don't think you're a pervert or a creep for jacking off into some girls bra and underwear. Lots of guys are into that. It's not even uncommon or weird. There are even lots of women who are very cool with guys who are into that. So it's not WHAT you're into that's the problem here (at all).

The only problem is... that you ended up doing it in a way that's violating to the girl (you're friend's sister... if she were to find out). That's why (I think/hope) you feel guilty.

So, I would chalk this up to "a mistake". Something you did, but wish you hadn't done... and WON"T DO AGAIN.

I would actually also urge you to explore the whole panty thing, if that's what you're into. There's nothing wrong with that. And I think it would be a shame for you to associate your arousal related to that... with your guilt over this specific incident.

In other words, find those girls who'll happily send you their dirty underwear knowing exactly what you want to do with them... so that you don't feel guilty for being into what you're into... because you shouldn't be.

So, I think you ought to forgive yourself for this. But also make sure you don't end up doing something you regret in the future.

Don't let this single incident make you think you're all fucked up, or a terrible person, or a pervert or a creep. Perverts and creeps go around CONTINUING to do creepy shit. You did something creepy, and are revolted by having done so. No problem... as long as you learn from it. 🙂

dynamicyandere · Answer

Bruh.

Red-Blaze · Answer

You most likely be dispointed but your not even close You where there, I know some that break in for stuff like that Zo sorry if ruin a fantasy for you, but you really not that bad at all

chocolaterabbit · Answer

Why did you take a picture if you feel so ashamed if it...

erandal · Answer

I have heard of this happening before and while it is not unknown you need to be careful. If she finds it, realizes what it is, she could guess it was you. Then you just have to hope it doesn't go south for you...

Shehnaz · Answer

All's well till the time you are not caught wet handed, once caught only God or she knows if as an after effect you'd be able to get an erection or not. It is not a perversion though, some girls mind it some don't while some might find it hot.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I would venture to say that most guys would be aroused by finding the bra of a girl they know hanging in the bathroom. I know when I was a teenager, i pretty much never went into a bathroom without masturbating. So, it doesn’t seem weird to me.

Now, if you find yourself getting more aroused by the bra than the thought of the girl who wears it…or if you start sneaking around looking for dirty underwear, you may be entering more dangerous territory.

modeve · Answer

It's no perversion in my view. Your friend's sister should not have display her undergarments. However, better to control yourself or if urge is too pressing, go to your own bed.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Wtf 😂😂

RavVid · Answer

Yes you are. Don't worry it is completely normal if you got away with it.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Wouldn’t say you’re the biggest pervert I’ve ever heard of but it’s definitely weird lol

oldermale · Answer

Nah, sorry mate your a lot like many other guys, relax. Hehe

Mangospacho · Answer

Nope. You don’t blame the lion for eating when he’s hungry, you blame the zoo employee in training who left a slab of meat next to a hungry lion.

Twalli · Answer

So you feel ashamed becuase the hot girls whose panties and bra you masturbated to is the sister of your friend? If she wasn't you probably wouldn't. Set her relationship to your friend aside. It's not a huge issue hot girls are going to get masturbated to, regardless of their connection to you or the person who masturbates to them. If it was your sister then it may be a bit on the weird side.