I felt used because he behaved like I was a whore?

I was about to kiss him and he just pulled up my dress, fingered me for a while and then fucked me for 15 seconds. He didn't kiss me , touch me or anything like that. Not before , not during and not after the sex. I felt used and like a whore. He also said that it was quick but it was nice while i felt disgusted from this situation.
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  • So when will you run back to him with tears in your eyes asking him to treat you like a whore again?

  • Who is this person?

  • Clearly your an easy lay

  • If you want to stay with him then talk to him about it

  • He might have been acting on impulse. A primal instinct type of urge. Have you discussed the way you felt about it with him? If having a discussion with him about how you were feeling after having sex with him that particular time could be something both if you could benefit from. Than I would set aside some alone time when neither of you are stressed, or have anything pressing going on. To calmly talk about how you felt afterwards. Try not to use phrases like, "You made me feel like...", "Do you think I'm just some...". Instead try to start by asking him how he felt before you had intercourse and after. Some times when I was younger I had been watching a movie or reading a book and the characters in the story or movie had done something that I found to be extremely arousing. So I thought it would be a good idea to try it. That might be the case in this particular situation. You never know what was the motivation of your boyfriend unless you ask..
    Good luck

  • That’s why I take care of my woman first, then she takes care of me.

  • Some women lpve it so much. May be he think you like it

    • Yeah it’s true some women think it’s hit done guys do it to be impressive 😐

    • Hot* Some*

    • Yes right but its not my prefer

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  • Poor sweet girl😢 leave him

  • Dam he just kind of sampled you

  • A 15 second fuck, You should be disgusted. He treated you very badly and it might even be considered rape. If you don't want to press charges just talk shit about Mr 15 seconds to every girl he knows. And get someone to kick his ass!

  • Walk away

  • Yes, that guy sucks. I woudlent see him anymore

  • That's all fucked up. I'm sorry

  • He don’t enjoy the meal. Feel sorry about him

  • That would be the end of him

  • You have every right to feel like a white as that is how he used you.
    Sounds like you are seeing the wrong kind of guys sweetheart.

  • Fun sometimes quickie, yes no?

  • You're over thinkin. He's attracted to you to a whole new level by doing so.

    • Why?

    • No matter how weird it sounds sometimes requires to feel desire for a woman to treat her such way.

    • Can you expand on what in your opinion, you are saying? This is difficult to guess. I don’t want to assume. Thank you 😊

  • Why you allow him to treat you like that tho?