I finally hooked up with someone else, sent my ex pics of it. day after he saw those pics he asked if he could slidee too. is this a dominance thing?

[Username1112225]

we broke up although he’s still hitting me up to fuck? giving me mixed signals like he’s not over me cuz he’s still hitting me up to fuck? but fucking other women. I finally hooked up with someone else, sent him pics of it. day after he saw those pics he asked if he could slidee too. is this a dominance thing? instead of being upset he wants to come over & fuck me better. why he wanna slide after seeing me fucking someone new

[MrOracle]

Honestly, it seems clear that he never took you seriously as a relationship partner, but just a sex toy, and that you never took the breakup seriously. I mean who does any of this? When you break up with someone, that relationship is OVER. But not for you - you're still taking actions specifically for his sake. It was no accident you took pictures banging some other guy, or that you sent them to your ex. That's not a thing the vast majority of people do, because when they break up with someone, that person is out of their life from then on.

You can live your life however you see fit, but know that if you are living your life THIS way, that it's going to cause you great emotional damage, even if it takes you years to realize it. You are just letting guys use you for sex - guys who clearly don't care about you. Likely, you are either choosing them because they're hot, or because they have similar (selfish, self-centered) traits as your father figure, but such men aren't going to care about you beyond the pussy you can provide them. Again, you can live that way if you want, but the emotional damage will accumulate, even if you manage to avoid other problems (violence, STDs, unplanned pregnancies, etc.) - but don't just assume you'll avoid those things.

Hopefully, you'll realize that you won't be able to have a healthy relationship until you develop some self-respect and until you start choosing men based on their morals, values, and life-goals, and NOT based on whether they are hot or exciting or will make your friends jealous. If you use the latter criteria to pick guys, your life will always be full of chaos.

[Username1112225]

I did that because he broke up, and I didn’t understand. still had feelings for him, he’d continue to hit me up to fuck/ hang out. we would hang out & then somehow end up fucking. this went on for awhile. til I went crazy on him. he figured outta way to get me attached & manipulated me. I got w someone new & sent pics of it. Told him to leave me alone stop hitting my line. If u supposedly “got alll these girls” cuz every time we fuck he’ll mention another girl. Or talk about a girl he fucked last week. I thought he was doing it to get me to chase him. Like just pretending/ saying that to get me jealous/ to chase him. Um nope did the oppsiyge id purposely go crazy on him to make it known if he is really fuckinh these random girls hurtful/ stop pretending. If he was really fucking new girls why would he be hitting me up to fuck

[Username1112225]

That’s why I kept letting this occur over & over.

[Username1112225]

I promise this is how the entire new generation of guys acts.

[MrOracle]

No, it's how a specific subset acts - usually good-looking, popular guys who also have poor morals and values. What you don't seem to understand is that YOU are the gatekeeper of your vagina - YOU decide who you have sex with, and thus it is YOUR job and YOUR responsibility to keep tight control over who you let in. This guy clearly doesn't care about you, but he enjoys having sex with you, so, yeah, he'll manipulate you for sex if he can - but you have to LET him. If you had established firm boundries and expectations - such as: once you break up, your relationship is 100% completely over - then you wouldn't be in this situation. But you don't set boundaries or expectations and just live your life based on the feelings you have in the moment, and that's a dangerous way to live, and very likely to cause pain and problems for you. What I'm saying may sound harsh to you, but I'm not trying to be mean to you - I'm trying to get through to you, to make you THINK, so that you make smarter decisions in the future and protect yourself from abuse and emotional pain. No one else can protect you from your own choices but YOU, so if you aren't making good decisions, you will have bad outcomes, and I don't wish that on anyone.

[jahaims]

It is because you are just a cum rag. He doesn't care if others hit it because all you are to those guys are a warm hole.

[Anonymous]

Cause he only wants you for sex and he saw a chance to bang you again so he took it!

More of just wanting to be a slutty guy then dominance.

Tell you that you can't be fucked better and your done with him!

There is no relation but friends with benefits! You know it won't work!

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... that is so incredibly hot! If you did that to me, even after we'd broken up, I'd definitely do something really sweet for you, just for making me so jealous... lol

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much for the point... I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if it's alright.

[Jerre]

Sounds like he wants to be your fuck toy. Tell him to get lost!

[Jerre]

@username1112225 Thank you for the Like

[Anonymous]

if y’all hook up all the time maybe that’s why?

[Username1112225]

yeah maybe he was jealous. u right. but in terms of like mabe he wanted to slide next day cuz we hookup all the time. I wouldn’t think he’d wanna fuck after me sending him pics of me finally fucking someone else

[Username1112225]

wdym if we hookup all the time maybe that’s why. like u mean maybe he jealous or he wanted to slide next day cuz we hookup all the time