I find it hot when he forcefully does it?

Like for example last week he put his finger in my butt during foreplay, I laugh and push away his hands and tell him to not do that..

But he laughs and grabs my both arms by the wrist and fingers my butt anyways and I got super aroused by it

I find every similar scenario even when it's not sexual very hot.. does anyone have a similar thing?

(We always have a safe word just in case and things stop if I say that, but never had to use it)

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  • My current partner is very similar. She'll tell me to 'stop' when I slap her ass, yet moans and her nipples get hard through her shirt if I do it a few more times. Granted, she has a very high sex drive, so I think that's a factor too.

    Same if I pretend like I'm going to do anal to her. She tells me 'wrong hole' yet moans and get wetter from it. She's even squirt on a few occasions because she's too turned on by me teasing her despite her saying 'stop'. Granted, there is a tone of voice she uses when she actually *wants* me to stop. Learning the difference is key lol.

    Sometimes I think she surprises herself by how much it turns her on when I mutually 'force' said situation. I think at the end of the day is because she's a Sub and I'm a Dom. As weird as it sounds, I think it shows a healthy sex life between the two knowing what's actually okay and what's not, despite their supposed 'no' or 'stop'.

    • Sounds really hot! enjoy..

  • Nope it's not weird, very normal

    No one is getting hurt and both of you are enjoying it so it's fine

    I think it's related to CNC (Consensual Non-consent) kink, where you find it hot when he does something without your consent but not really without your consent if you know what I mean.. enjoy!

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  • Oh god yess, happened to me too. My boyfriend always slaps my butt and when I tell him not to he just slaps it again harder.

    For some reason I just love it when it happens. I act angry and all when he does that but inside I just want it more and harder lol

    • Oh yes, sounds very hot ngl

    • lol I guess but I am aware that it's knida a toxic behavior on my part.

    • Nope it's fine.. as long as both of ya stop at the safe word it's fine to have fun I love it when he adds grabbing my hands too! Like I push his hands away and cover my butt but he grabs my hands with one hand and continues to spank and tease !!

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  • Power dynamics can be very hot indeed, just always make sure its properly discussed beforehand. Since you have a safe word I think its fun for both of you to keep exploring it, as long as he respects the safe word all is well.

  • I do... Makes me respond... down there

  • You enjoy being dominated. That's OK. Enjoy!

  • Women fantasize about being raped just dont want to in reality. Most chicks want a burglar to break into her home and fuck her hard and raw in the dark remaining unknown then just disappear

    • Well yes and no lol My fantasies are only with my boyfriend and I can never imagine having it with a stranger if that makes sense

    • Its never about it with a actual stranger but thats her desire. Her man role plays with her. Women are sick freaks who just desire to be used abused and dominated

    • Oh roleplay yeah , and come on, it's not sick lol

  • My girlfriend loves when I use deep throating to shut her up, she purposefully talks too much just for that lolol, sounds weird but that's her kink and I love it too

    It's not an uncommon stuff and it's not something that harms anyone , so I guess you can discuss this with your partner if you haven't already

  • I think it's related to CNC (Consensual Non-consent) kink, where you find it hot when he does something without your consent but not really without your consent if you know what I mean.. enjoy!