I found a lube injector in boyfriends room but we never use it yet he sais it’s for his flesh light?

I was cleaning and I happened to find it thrown close to his bed. Do men really use it for sex toys as well? It just doesn’t make sense to me and I’m feeling really paranoid now.
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I also want to add Im visiting him from afar. I’m currently debating if to fly out back home even though I just got here.
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  • Of course they do- you don't get natural lubrication from silicone or plastic. Sex needs friction, but not too much friction; where nature fails, human ingenuity steps up. I'm not familiar with Fleshlights specifically, but unless there's some other way the lubrication would take place, you'd need to inject it. You can probably check the "what's in the box" section of their website for details and pictures, or just ask your boyfriend to show you how it works (although I'd be careful to phrase the question so it doesn't sound like you're accusing him of anything; no point in putting him on the defensive over what's probably a simple misunderstanding).

    • Thank you for taking the time to write this! We did get in fight since I came off pretty accusative and he stormed off to the gym a bit ago pretty pissed off to say the least. Which I kinda get, I should have approached the situation differently but I was just on high anxiety and paranoia. Appreciate the comment again!

    • Your welcome. Hope you can calm things down and talk it out!

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  • Yup, you need lube for a fleshlight. I have even used it in my butt before my girlfriend fingers me. so yeah, guys use them, nothing to be weirded out about nor should he be embarrassed. I know I’m not

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  • Yes, men use it for sex toys as well…
    What are you gonna do? Stick your dick in a dry rubbery tube? Sounds awful.

    • I know the flesh light has to be lubed I just don’t see why the tube has to be used /: so you know guys that use it for those purposes as well?

  • Its for sex , it the same action for a flesh light..

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  • Other than cheap blowup dolls given as joke-gifts at Batchlor parties, I've never seen a male sex toy, much less used one.

  • Yes you need lube for a Fleshlight. As you know all younger guys jerk off frequently, but most will never admit it.

  • He could be using it to lube up his Fleshlight, which does require lube to use. Why do you doubt him?

  • I use the same thing for the same reason. Some toy makers just give them out as a bonus.

  • So what's the big deal, don't you use sex toys to

  • It's possible it's for a fleshlight, or he may use it around back.

    • My thoughts exactly. Which Makes paranoid to think it involves other people

    • Stay vigilant. Please feel free to PM if you wish to discuss more.

  • He's probably using a dildo on his ass lol

  • Lol what is a lube injector?

  • You know we need lube for a fleshlight? Right? There is no reason to be paranoid, its just a sex toy

  • If we use a fleshlight we do need lube for it.

  • Girls can have a toy box full of devices that would make the devil blush. Poor guy has a fleshlight and gets judged for it. Our society is trash.

    • It’s not the flesh light I was questioning, it’s if guys use lube injectors for flesh lights. Since I thought lube injectors were for vaginal or anal use

    • Oh I see. When tou have sex its the female creating the lubrication. So when he fu*KS his rubber tubing a lot of painful friction probably occurs. Hence the lube.

    • Yea I get the lube! Just not the lube injection, but I’m guessing since the flesh light is kinda built like a vaginal opening it would make some sense to use the tube? I just thought you’d can simply squeeze the lube in there or put it on your self before using the flesh light

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  • Guys don’t need injectors.

  • I reakon he's gay or bi

  • Lmao. Wtf

  • Dont worry it doesn't mean he thinks any less of you, he has it for when he can't be with you, guys are horny all the time! Fleshlights feel good and all but are nothing like a real woman. Hope this helps!

  • I think its recommended to use a lube injector with a fleshlight. If u gotta use lube on ur woman ur doing it wrong

  • It sounds like you don't trust him so this is already over...

  • Yeah it’s for sex toys too so he is probably telling the truth, I guess you aren’t around him enough to service him as much as he needs

  • What is a lube injector?

  • It could be used for anal sex with a dildo if he does that.

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