I found my nephew's secret admiration for kylian mbappe?

[Anonymous]

When she left the house, I decided to take a look at the notebook she used as a journey and sketchbook. but there was a problem, I realized that she writing about kylian mbappe about how much she fell in love with him, wanted to marry him, wanted to have a son with him and how horny she was for him. She often wrote sexually explicit things about herself and Kylian. and she had written some stories in which kylian and herself were fictionalized as a family and they had a son, she even draw herself with kylian and their son. I couldn't believe she was doing these for a man she didn't know, and I am so worried. How kind of fangirling is that? what's going on with her? She is 17

[Guy13]

Firstly, you should understand that you emotionally violated her in away that could be compared to rape.
Secondly, your perception of how others should live is off.
Thirdly, there is nothing wrong with fantasy and fiction as the movie, tv, anime cartoons, and social media have demonstrated.

Fourthly, you violated her relationship with her best friend. It’s the place where she vents, shares, and is listened too without judgments. That diary 📔 is the only person that has been with her the whole of her life outside of her immediate family. And that friend/book does not judge her like the people in her life.
Refrain from doing it again please. Please do not mention the content. And a blanket apology referencing one thing in the past and anything else I may do in future…. Not Expert !! Thinking out loud on apologizing part.

[Asker]

You right about the last one

[Guy13]

It is a tough situation. Best in it and everything. Enjoy Christmas !!

[socair]

So is your nephew female?

either way male or female this relation of your would not be the first young person to develop a crush on someone unsuitable or older or both

and they will doubtless get over it

Of course if it is a male then the wanting children thing may present some issues

[Asker]

She is a girl

[4ngelic]

nothing to worry about it's just harmless fangirling. like every teen girl will do that at some point for a celeb. at least though it's someone like mbappe there's worse she could stan lol

[Asker]

But she stan him in a weird way. Why would she want to have a son and have sex with someone she never met? I had celebrity crushes too but not like this I don't think that's normal

[Киттйлинк]

and how old are you snooping around other peoples personal stuff? it's not like you found a murder confession, mind your own business.

[Киттйлинк]

also, nephew is "HE" not she.

[Asker]

I don't know much English

[ShellyB]

It is a little crazy but it is crazy in a normal way if that makes sense, I would put it back, pretend you didn't see it and not say anything about it to anybody irl. JMO!

[Asker]

You right that's so embarrassing

[SnowedIn]

Put the journal back. Think nothing more of it. Kids (adults even) do this. Let it go. None of your business in the first place and nothing wrong with it.

[Asker]

Is it normal to wanting to have a family and having sex with a man she never met?

[SnowedIn]

In that context, absolutely yes. Kids do it all the time about celebrities. I dreamt of having sex and marrying any number of women when I was a teenage boy. My wife did that about celebrities and her friends too. There's the good news, actually: better that this journaling stuff is about a man she never met than the next door neighbor's kid. Why? She'll never have sex with that man she's journaling about. The next door neighbor's kid she could go have sex with now. The journaling thing is a harmless releases, a little like written masturbation.

[Asker]

Ok I understand I will think about that 🤔

[SnowedIn]

And, I applaud you for being concerned. That's awesome for an aunt to do. But, looking in their stuff, even if you thought it was a sketchbook is so not cool. Here's the thing: if you haven't already, say nothing. This won't just burn trust, this will nuclear bomb any trust you have with that young woman and possibly stands to damage your relationship with your sibling who's their parent. Step away from this whole issue as if it were a ticking bomb, land mine, or grenade.

[Asker]

Okayy u Right 👍🏽

[Brando10222]

You shouldn't have read it

[Asker]

Why?

[Brando10222]

There's something called privacy too lol. You are so nosy. Can't mind your own business

[Asker]

I just want to protect her

[Brando10222]

Have your kids and protect them

[FireFox001]

She should be protected from you and your indecent curiousness.

[peterrezeeek]

it's ok after a few years she is going to forget that and thaink herself she was stupid

[Asker]

Ok I am happy to hear that

[In_Trance]

This is the kinda shit kids do. Actually a lot of adults do this too.

[MaSult]

First of all, you should not have read it even if you want to protect her. That's nothing bad you read, just thoughts and feelings written down. Just keep quiet about it and act as if you had never read it 🙈

[Asker]

You right but I don't think those throughts and feelings are normal

[MaSult]

How old is she?

[MaSult]

Ah 17, sorry

[MaSult]

It is normal to fantasize about sexual things at 17. Everyone deals with it differently. Some often do it themselves, watch porn etc. She just writes her thoughts on🙈😅.

[Asker]

Thank you

[MaSult]

Your welcome😘

[EaterPeter]

Niece? I would have left it alone. Or share with someone who know how to help her. Journals are not for others to read.

[jimmy2]

Lol it a faze

[Asker]

What faze means?

[Anonymous]

It’s a celebrity crush. I wouldn’t worry about it.

[Asker]

I had celebrity crushes when I was at her age too but isn't that too much?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s fangirlibg too much but she’ll grow out of it

[Asker]

When? How can I stop her?

[Anonymous]

You had no right sneaking around to read her journal. You violated her privacy and trust and that’s so shameful. Do better.

[Asker]

I didn't mentioned it about this to her

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t matter, you are 100% wrong. You are not her parent, she’s nearly an adult, and it’s just not your business. If you were genuinely worried in the first place you would’ve been the grown ass adult that you are and talked to her woman to woman instead of sneak and read her private thoughts. I feel so bad for her, this is such a violation.

[Opinion Owner]

Now you can’t even say shit to her about your findings without exposing yourself so what was the point? You’ve got to “worry” in private that was so ridiculous of you.

[Asker]

i just think that what she is doing and thinking is not normal so i was worried but you are right about one thing

[Opinion Owner]

So if you had troublesome thoughts that lead to reading her journal then why not have confronted her about it in the first place and given her a chance to tell you on her own?

[Opinion Owner]

I know you have no answer for that because there’s no good reason. Reading her journal tells me that you think she’s still a kid and doesn’t deserve an actual conversation and that’s so wrong. Maybe you don’t understand but it’s so wrong and violating that you didn’t such a pointless thing. Please find a better use of your time and leave her alone.