I found out my boyfriend talks to his mom about our sex life?

My boyfriend has told me that his mom asked him questions about our sex life, for example ‘ how many times do you do it?’. I think she asked more too but he didn’t tell me. He also said she used to ask these things about his ex girlfriend, for example she asked if sexual issues were the reason for the breakup ( leading me to believe he must have discussed sexual issues with her). This leads me to worry that he has discussed things of this nature with her about us too. I feel really uncomfortable about this.
What do you guys think of this and what should I do?
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Superb Opinion

  • Seems too personal to be discussing with a parent. Talk to him about it.

    i know I wouldn’t be comfortable talking to my mother about that stuff, nor would I feel comfortable being in a relationship like that. I’d expect a mother and daughter to be closer to that scenario but even my girlfriend doesn’t get into conversation that personal. (At least I don’t think so) .

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think it’s abnormal. I would tell him that your sex life is none of her business. I would add it to the ‘bad things’ pile and see if the ‘good things’ pile is still big enough to support the difference.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You should tell your boyfriend that you're not comfortable with him disclosing your sex life to his mom or anyone. It's something very private that he shouldn't share. Not to mention there's something off about her making those questions...

  • I mean, as long as he doesn’t give details, it is ok.
    She sounds chill, but it really isn’t her place to know all that. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That’s really weird in my opinion. Tell him how you feel and that you’re not ok with it

  • That's weird as shit, my mother is the last person on the planet I'd ever discuss sex with. How is there relationship, I take it they are very close? Maybe a little too close if you ask me.

  • Invite her to a threesome.

  • Oh, just let her watch

  • mother son bonding went wrong.