My girlfriend told me she wants to try rough sex, but I haven't done that much cause I'm scared to hurt her by being too rough
My one male friend is really into rough sex and talks about his experiences a lot, it's his favorite thing
Should I approach him about this and ask for tips and guidance?
You should be taking guidance from your girlfriend. Go watch a couple of scenes from Kink. com, and note how at the beginning of each and every one of them, the women are interviewed and they talk about safety, and have both verbal and non-verbal "safe words." Otherwise, it's HER body and HER emotions that matter, no one else's.
Honestly, I’d be the bigger person and not give into it. She most likely wants to try it because she’s been told and shown her whole life by this nasty perverted culture that that’s how a man should treat a woman. Show her that it is not the correct way for a man to treat a woman in the bedroom. Show her what love and respect truly is and that you are not willing to be degrading to her. She may not understand it in the moment, but I believe she will respect you much more so long-term
Up to you but I would recommend asking women because they’ll have better advice on what your girlfriend might like then he will. You should also ask her could be sexy foreplay.
That's really smart actually He's experienced but he could be making a mistake or two he's not aware of and pass it on to me And yeah I'll communicate more to her, I really just want to satisfy her
That makes perfect sense! Good luck!
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Is it some kind of extreme BDSM with nipple piercing and cane until her butt bleed?
Or some kind of anal fuck that is so painful that she screams for mercy?
Or some cos play where she's tied up and gaged and then forced to drink cum?
Or just a doggy style fuck by a 9-inch cock?
Or what?
Yes dude, ask her. You'll be surprised how "innocent" her impression of "Rough sex" is.
You need to have a sit down with you girlfriend and talk about this. Come up with a safe word and discuss how rough she wants it.
You should talk to your girlfriend and see what she has in mind.
You don't need guidance, just follow your instincts. Start like usual and after a few thrusts, thrust fast, hard and deep into her. Her reaction will let you know if you should keep going. Slow down once in awhile do you don't cum too fast.
Yeah I think your bro would help you out and give some ideas to try on your girl. Most girls who like rough sex likes there booty slapped, light choking and hair pulling, and just totally go hard and fast on her and don't let up.
Yeah he talks about doing that to the chicks he hangs out with, my girl is thin and average height and I just don't wanna hurt her by mistake
Yeah just go easy on her first and if she likes maybe get a little rougher with till you feel pain more than pleasure. Also if you think your strong enough try to lift her or throw her around a little show her who's boss. lol.
Go for it bro. Make the wild man outta you and her 😉😄
Are you fcking kidding. NO ! choke her as you cum and make her touch herself while you plow her ass!
Nope.
I am willing to bet that the majority of women are into rough sex. It’s biological.
Id recommend checking out a few podcasts (Sex With Emily, Shameless Sex and CaitlinV on YouTube) it will help you understand the female perspective on sexual desire.
I am very dominant in bed but I focus on aftercare. During sex I let my animalistic nature take over and then after orgasm I like to cuddle and be tender with the girl.
I suggest you just discuss with your girlfriend what she is into. Also consider watching some porn together that includes rough sex for inspiration.
No, because he might get the wrong idea.
What do you mean?
A threesome.
Yeah that's true actually lol nearly all my guy friends, including him, have done that, I haven't though!
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