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I found picture of another girl on my boyfriends phone. What do I do?

We’ve been together nearly 2 years and live together and I couldn’t be any happier and he says the same.. he tells me he loves me and he never goes out without me so I know he’s not cheating.. but when I went to use his iPod for something, the first thing that popped up was a conversation with his friend and pictures of girls basically naked.. and not porn stars but someone they know... I know this is bad but I had to scroll up and of course the whole conversation was all about how amazing her boobs are and how she knows who he is... I feel so shitty, I don’t have big boobs or anything like that girl.. this completely broke me.. I don’t know if I’m overreacting but this really really hurts especially cause he’s never been like that..
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You can't compare these girls to you however if its girls they know honestly thats really rude of them to do i totally know that guys have their talks about other females etc but he just put himself in a shitty position, especially to leave it on his phone. I would confront him telling him that you know he's not blind and he can tell when people are attractive but when he's basically oogling over other girls and not even you it makes you feel shitty. It would be one thing if you got this type of attention from him but.. he's not.

  • First you are shocked. Next you are hurt. You know the truth is that you should be done with him, but you love him so much that you are in denial. It will eventually sink in though.
    What you could do is check his phone again in a while and see if this is an ongoing thing. It could be possible that it's a one time stupid thing going on mostly from his friend's side.
    Or you could ask to take a break from the relationship for a while, and see how he reacts. But I bet you're not ready for that yet.

  • First, confronting him angrily will lead to an argument and/or someone walking out. Just casually explain what happened that led to finding the picture. If he overreacts with clenched teeth and mad eyes, then he'll try to change the subject asking why you used his iPod and went through his messages.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You see guys always like to talk about those stuffs, like making jokes talking about girls, but i think he truly loves u and he cares about u, besides all guys love girls with nice boobies. He isn't cheating he just having some chill with his friends, but no worries he ain't cheating on u as long u show love to him and treat him good, and dont give him excuses to look for other girk

    • I really hope so.. it’s the first time something like this has happened.. maybe you’re right

    • As girls like to talk about make up and brag about their bfs, and etc. Guys love to talk about girls, games, sport and cars and other stuff too so yea ur just over reacting cuz its normal

  • Sounds like the start of a toxic relationship - especially if he didn't ignore his friend. Any guy with any sense of integrity won't respond to these or even touch them with a 39-and-a-half-foot pole, myself included. If he were single that'd be a different story but that's seemingly not the case.

    • I don’t even know what they were talking about before that as it showed that they were on the phone for 1hr prior to that..

    • I've seen similar situations, they all go down in flames for various reasons. It'd be worse if he solicited it.

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  • Are you saying like a guy friend sent him pictures of some girl they know? If that's the case, I wouldn't be as pissed off as I would be if he was the one directly receiving those pictures from the girl. I would confront him about it

    • I think his friend got with the girl before and it was my boyfriend that sent him a screenshot of her Instagram pictures... in her underwear.. complete opposite of what I’m like..

  • What I would do if I were you is communicate tell him you saw it and just share how you feel about it. Also its common for guys to have these kinds of talks but that doesn't make it right when you are in a commitment

  • confront him.

    • What do you think is going on? :/

    • @Gramer I don’t know, he’s always then most amazingly boyfriend ever and don’t get me wrong he still is.. I thought I could forget about it but it’s kept me up all night and I’ve been through this before with a guy.. it was on a much worse level than this but this just brought back a lot of hurt from the past.. and I’m scared because we’ve talked about the future together and everything was perfect until I saw that.. I don’t know what to think or do.. I don’t want him thinking I’m a psycho but then again I want an explanation just so we can put it behind us..

    • @Asker Was the conversation's point towards the interest of your boyfriend to that girl or your boyfriend's friend liked the naked girl in the pictures?

  • Talk to him about it

  • Call him out on it

  • Break up or address ur insecurities

  • You could maybe try invading his privacy like some creepy weirdo. That might help things out

  • Ask him casually about it and see what he gives for an answer, you are still young..

  • he's not being completely loyal to you if his interests are wandering to another girl with big boobs /: i would talk to him about it and see what he says and if it goes well dont let him off easy, you have to show him you’re serious and not taking this lightly

    • Have you ever had something similar? :D

  • I’d be really hurt too. Tell him how you feel

  • This is not ok ! “Boys will be boys” is not an excuse for men mistreating women ! You should be livid that your man is disrespecting this girl by brandishing photos around in a group message talking about her breasts !.. How would you feel if he was in a group chat showing pics of you & talking about your body?

  • Have you spoken to him about this?

    You should feel hurt because that's pretty Fucked up what he did.

    • I don’t know know what to do, because he’s never upset me before and this is the last thing I expected.. and if I say it to him, I know he’ll freak out and say I’m going through his stuff.. I’m so in love with him and don’t want to lose him :(

    • You're going to have to bring it up because what if it goes further and he actually cheats? It's better to deal with it now before it goes too far. by the way, you are in the right here.

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