I found screenshots of women on my partners phone?

Aman1990 Xper 4

He had in his deleted items over a months worth of screenshots of women, Instagram/tiktok which he was using to wank over. It was a lot and often. I felt really really uncomfortable.. is there something to be worried about

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OrallyFixated Yoda
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Worried about what?
What is your concern?
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- Aman1990
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  Why is he wanking over random girls on tiktok… why not I duno porn?
- OrallyFixated
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  Because men are visual creatures. My experience is that it is no reflection on you or your relationship. Sometimes, you just gotta rub one out. If you are happy in your relationship otherwise, no trust issues or anything like that, I wouldn’t stress over it too much. My husband likes titties, but he likes mine the best. As long as it stays that way, my homicidal tendencies with remain dormant.
- Aman1990
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  I’m just having a rough time I’ve been feeling really gross within myself and I’ve expressed that to him, I think that’s why it hurt a lot
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- OrallyFixated
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  I can totally understand how this could contribute to the rough time you are currently having. When you’re feeling gross, as you described it, and I know exactly what you’re talking about, something like this can really magnify those feelings. Like I said, if you guys are in a good place otherwise, I wouldn’t stress too much. If you want it to stop, make sure he’s knows that’s what you want. He’ll either respect your wishes because he respects you. Or he won’t. Then you’ll have decide how you want to deal with that. Good luck my dear. I hope your crappy mood passes soon.

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Anonymous
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I dont think masturbation is a bad thing, but screenshotting random people's insta for a wank is kinda creepy lol at least pornos are meant for that
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- Aman1990
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  RIGHT!!!
LaMiSch Xper 5
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Masturbating is completely normal, nothing to worry about. But I find it very questionable to use screenshots of other "normal" women.
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- Aman1990
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  This is what’s upset me. If it was porn that’s ok, that’s what porn is for right but why is it these women on social media Instagram tiktok? Normal women? I’m really confused and his explanation didn’t help
- LaMiSch
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  What was his explanation?
- Aman1990
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  His been in the mood and I haven’t been so his turned to online. When we first started dating he would refuse to engage in the idea of masterbating over other women he would say he loved me too much and couldn’t get off on anyone else, he said now he doesn’t know why he can
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- LaMiSch
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  I think it's perfectly fine to masturbate if the other person doesn't feel like it. But using the pictures of "real" other women for this is weird. Hmm.. would have to be discussed 🙈
- Aman1990
  1 y
  He said porn doesn’t do it for him..
- LaMiSch
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  Okay, there's a lot to talk about 🙈 Do you mind if we do this via dm? goes faster.
- Aman1990
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  Message me!
- LaMiSch
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  I can't, you have to follow me or you message me 😁
- Aman1990
  1 y
  Ooops sorry done now

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FunkyMonkee Master
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Any of them you'd like to fuck?
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JPresidente Yoda
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Luuuuuucy! You got some splaining to do!
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Shamalien Guru
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Just a spank bank, not much to worry about in my opinion. Now if he’s messaging them…different story
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maximumpower Explorer
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Worry about it only once you have proof of his doing something about them.
Until then, don't.
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Twalli Master
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Not really. They're images in the public domain
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- Aman1990
  1 y
  But they aren’t there for sexual pleasure? These photos a lot of them were normal women
- Twalli
  1 y
  Probably, but it's not like he's fucking them. They're in that position or such to be viewed sexually. Unless he has a personal relationship with thrm, I see no problem
In_Trance Master
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What's worrying is that you justify a negative perception with your own negative action.
Why are you going through his phone?
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- Aman1990
  1 y
  We can pick up eachother phones if we want. I don’t know why my mind lead me to check his deleted items on his phone
richgentlem4n Xper 4
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this lad ain't worth it
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Anonymous
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It's not like he is sleeping with them.
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Anonymous
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Yes it is, because he hid it from you intentionally.
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- Aman1990
  1 y
  That’s right.. he said he didn’t know how to tell me. He said whenever his in the mood I’m not etc so he has a wank over random women
- Opinion Owner
  1 y
  Their is no reason he couldn't have just asked.
- Aman1990
  1 y
  That’s what I said.. and why social media why not porn? He couldn’t answer that. It was all very very confronting seeing it
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- Opinion Owner
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  Sorry you had to find that, but at least you know.