I'm a freak who can have sex all day w/multiple orgasms, but he cums in less than a minute?

[iknowmostbutnotall]

I know how to have sex and I know about holding off to let him gather himself, but with this guy it seems impossible. I've tried stopping or slowing down while giving him head, but it seems like its not enough, cause as soon as I start again he cums, or as soon as he goes in me he cums. I ve tried the top, cause I can control the speed and depth, but still, he cums. So lately I give him like 2sec head,swallow, wait about 20 min and we start again, it last maybe a little over a min and he again cums right way. We never make it past 2 times, its like that's it... I know if we practice starting and stopping, he can hopefully learn to control it, but I don't know how to talk to him about it, he knows I'm a freak and wanna do it more and longer,and he apologizes,even tho its not his fault. But I just don't know how to say, hey guy, I'm gonna suck your d***, when you feel like your going to cum, think about your grandma til the feeling goes away, then ill keep sucking til we've mastered it and we can go all night. I don't wanna sound like a bitch,because everything is perfect besides that, so ending what we have cause he can't control this is def.not worth doing...SO can any one please tell me how to bring it up and how I can help this?

[azzhole725]

A major part of premature ejaculation is the mental aspect. Guys have been program to ejaculate quickly due to evolution. All guys must reprogram themselves. Some guys do it better than others. He should masturbate more in order to get to know himself better. He needs to stop before he hits climax. The best method for him is to do the activity without looking at p*rn or anything sexual. Another method to battle premature ejaculation is to practice kegel exercises. While he's peeing, he should stop and hold it for two or three seconds. These exercises will strengthen his PC muscles. He could also put a light towel on his penis when he's semi-erect and lift the towel.

Reassure them that you care about him and for the most part you are happy. Just let him know that you want to be able to satisfy your sexual hunger with him and the one pump chump is not working for you. His pride will be hurt, but if he sees the bigger picture he should understand.

[TheAnswerer]

1-) You're not a freak. Lots of girls prefer sexually active lives.

2-) Why not let him give you oral or finger you instead? You can have an orgasm, and then you can finish him off with intercourse.

3-) there are products that numb the penis so that he can have less sensations and last longer. There are condoms that have a numbing solution in them. There are lots of other "delaying products" in sex shops. Try them.

[nothingtosee]

Suggestion: Tell him that, for now on, if he wants to cum, he HAS to ask for permission, and he can't cum without it. Tell him that if he cums without your permission, he will be punished. The punishment should be, he HAS to eat his cum afterwards, NO exceptions!!!

[Enickols12]

Look into the PC mussel and have him exercise it, that will allow him to physically stop orgasms. As far as telling him goes, just say something like "Hey I was on Google and I saw an article about the Pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) and it said that it is possible to delay orgasms if correctly exercised. Also have him eat you to an orgasm between his and he may have enough time to "recharge" before going again. I hope I was able to help.

[Longshot]

I think you can be straightforward about it. But you should realize he may not be able to control it or it may take time for him to learn how to.

[immortalsoul]

It is called premature ejaculation

[jjj26]

Well, there are condoms especially designed to slow down the guy.

But you have to talk to him. Say that you read on the internet that girls have an orgasm after 10 min and guys after 3 (average). And tell him that you would like if a guy last longer than 3 min.

If you really like him, you must talk to him. Because it can also be a medical problem and he has to go to the doctor (I think that 1/3 of the men suffers from that).

[marko25]

you have already answered that your self keep trying each time he will last longer and longer, I think about sick animals or kids with cancer when I feel like cumming and its not the right time.

[Anonymous]

He is efficient not a lot you can do about it, except let him work on it...