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I gave a guy a blowjob and he didn't last long at all, is that a bad thing for me like would he have liked to last longer?

so i don't have much experience but i sucked him off after we had been at it for like 20 mins and i would have been sucking him off for like 30 seconds, he came in my mouth unexpectedly and i swallowed it and then i was like shit was it bad, would he have wanted to last longer. then the next morning he was fingering me and i was jerking him off and he asked me to wet my hand so i just decided to get under the covers and give him a blowjob and like 30 seconds later he cums in my moth again. i don't know if its a good thing that I'm making him cum fast or wether he thinks it bad and he wants to last longer. i guess what I'm asking is when someone asked if i give head will he say "fuck yea" or "eh dude she's alright" and next time should i be going down there to suck him off or do you think he'd prefer i didn't.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You must have some serious BJ skills, congrats, he's a lucky guy. What are you worried about, some girls have no clue what they are doing and even hurt their guys with their teeth when they do it, you're doing everything right. And if he had an issue with it or wanted to last longer he would tell you to slow down or whatever.

    You're in the driver's seat, if you want it to last longer, then slow down your pace and do other things like licking his balls, his butthole, whatever. If he's ready to blow his load, but you don't want him to yet, squeeze his dick on this spot :
    www.risingmaster.com/.../squeeze-technique-1.jpg

    Or if you wanna get it over with and go to sleep, do what you've perfected and get some Zzzzs ;)

    • Ask before anything butt hole related! Lol, we don't all partake in such things, haha.

    • @TonyRyanAgain but it's more fun when you don't :P guys can be big babies and think butt play is gay or whatever, but trust me, when you surprise them like that, they'll climax even harder. That's where the male g-spot is, it's there to be pleasured.

    • I don't think it's gay and I know that's where the g spot is but surprising a guy not used to it is dangerous, lol. Unexplored territory, ya know? Lol.

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  • You are doing a great job and you're only going to get even better at it and enjoy it more and more. Personally I recommend going down there and sucking him off every chance you get. I say that because that's exactly what I enjoy doing most. I think it's great. Maybe you will too. And if that's what he likes, then even better.

  • The faster he cums, the better you are at it. At least that's how I see it

Most Helpful Guys

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  • Anytime A guy gets off and gets to cum in a girls mouth it's a good thing no matter if the bj was 5 seconds or 30 minutes.

    And yes he wished he lasted longer. BJs are amazing.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It sounds like you did a great job!

  • You must be doing something right to get him off so quickly. Does he blast off as fast during a handjob or sex?

  • Meh, depends on the dude. I don't think it's a bad thing unless it happens all the time and then it's more his problem that yours.

  • Baby, trust me, it's a good sign. Making a guy come fast by just going down on them, girl! you got some magical mouth. Hahah!

  • It takes me a lifetime to cum from a blowjob. You got some skills girl 👏👏 Or maybe he's suffering from premature ejaculation.

  • Well it's not bad. It means you are good. But most people like to edge it for a while instead of coming as fast as possible.

  • It's a good thing I suppose ^^

  • Fuck yeah

  • How the fuck did he came from bj lol it take like half hour or shit so you must have done some shit right ha

  • Damn, either he's got NO control or you're a professional, geez.

  • You did good... that's why he couldn't last long. Man I'm seeing A LOT of bj questions today.

  • no he is good with it. I'm sure he want to last longer, but might be too excited in being with you and cums fast

  • For me, the faster she can make me cum, the better the BJ. If it takes me a long time to cum it's because she doesn't know what she is doing.

  • No that's good and sure most guys would appreciate a blowjob like that.

  • For me, the more aroused I am, the faster I cum

  • NO.. you did a good job. The faster someone cums is an indication he was really turned on.

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