I feel guilty after some sexual even not that sexual behaviours what makes me feel fine is that I try to read the scientific importance of sex in health related topics and to see that if done with respect this is what actually has us all here discussing it without it there's no life and as far as humans go... we do it for pleasure, pleasure is on us so we want to do it a populate this earth, so non penetrative sex is healthy and good for human race... talk to him maybe try in more public places... if you liked it tell him the situation is what made toy uncomfortable not the bj, as far as I've read the most important thing for guys during orals is that you are doing it because you're enjoying it... Many people do this things and doesn't make them mean they're just free, your nice social behaviour stays intact because your sexuality doesn't define who you are.
Thank you so much
I have lots of Muslim friends who had the same thing happen to them with their Muslim girl friends. But im not really one for religion dealing much with guilt so im not really sure with that. Im catholic too and things like sex before marriage and other sins dont really make me ever feel guilty.
explain first off what you being Muslim has to do with you feeling guilty? then i can better answer this.
I was taught that sex before marriage is a bad thing. And oral sex is similar to sex and i am worried that my future husband won't want me bc i blew somebody in the past
trust me blowing is nothing like sex what so ever. it may be sexual, but something being sexual and having sex are two very different things. When you look at it you have to think like lines and levels. the level of sexual things goes up higher and higher until it reaches actual sex; sex being the line that you won't cross. like kissing is like level one, physical touching like fingering or breast touching level two, Three is oral, and then comes sex. You just have to remember that it's your body so draw a line where you want it to be what you feel comfy doing and not doing. Now you did oral it's not sex so in the eyes of your religion your good, but for you personalty you probably feel what it is to be overly rushed and that makes you feel negative religiously. remember to separate the two a little one thing is having sex or losing your virginity witch you did not do so in your religion you're okay nothing bad has been done. I have studied your religion quite in depth.
so know that you are okay. Now try and think about you yourself might you feel bad about the oral because things may have gone to fast which makes you doubt yourself witch makes you feel some what guilty or bad? Because if that's the case then just remember taking things slow has a purpose it means to take things at a speed where you are comfortable with and draw a line that you will not cross one is sex before you are married that's respectable that's a good line to have that you won't cross. Do you feel you need another line not to cross if so make one if not, then do you feel that things may have just gone to fast? In either case no you have not sined in the eyes of your lord or in the eyes of your religion so take comfort in that, and if you do feel you went to fast there is no need to feel guilt just take things a little slower.
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if you don't like it dont do it mate, but beating your self up over what can't be undone it pointless and crazy. just forget about it and move on. x
It's against Islam to have premarital sex, the sharia code punishes fornication both male and female.
BJ is NOT similar to sex, it IS sex, oral sex to be exact. The Quran doesn't see a distinctions between the two oral sex and intercourse.
Well, don't beat yourself up on it. Sometimes you don't enjoy things but do it anyways because your partner likes it.
He told me not to do it again
Hey there, you said that he told you not to do it again as he saw you didn't like it. Talk to him about i then.
Why shall i talk to him :D
pray for forgiveness and make sure it doesn't happen again thats all you can do anyway
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