I get far more pleasure when my boyfriend fingers me or licks my vagina. But I dont get much pleasure during penetration or vaginal sex. Why?

[Anonymous]

[Leapfrog00]

How long does he usually eat you out or finger you for? There are a few things you could do. Maybe try making the foreplay last long. But if you're not getting off during sex, it could be there's nothing happening to interest you. That's what causes this a lot of times.

Try doing some role-playing or something kinky, like fetishes. There are certain materials that make sex more pleasurable, like silk or nylon. Maybe wear something like that because a lot of times, materials like that will make you more sensitive and make the orgasms stronger.

My ex-girlfriend used to wear skirts and nylons sometimes and it used to excite her a lot more. I know that sounds like it would be something more for a guy but it's about your body and you feeling pleasure.

You could also try role-playing. I sometimes play the big bad wolf and the girl I'm with plays little red riding hood and trust me, it makes the sex so much more intense! It can anything though. I'm sure there are websites that give you role-playing ideas. Hope this helped!

[MementoMori777]

I think it's because you must have a more sensitive clitoris than a g spot.

[msmissydc]

I consider that normal actually. Does he involve your clit during penetration? Also try different positions some help better.

[ashuu20]

Do you not feel any pleasure from vaginal intercourse?

[msmissydc]

@ashuu20 I do feel pleasure but much more from clit stimulation during oral.

[ashuu20]

Please rate the pleasure of vaginal penetration out of 10 when compared to clit stimulation?

[msmissydc]

@ashuu20 can't you just try it yourself? I mean it can differ from person to person. My rating won't help you. Also there isn't like one asnwer to this.

[hbg84]

This is normal for lots of women. Some can only reach climax through clitoral stimulation and or labia stimulation. It's all about the nerves in the vaginal region.

[lovelyu3]

Very normal. My clit gives me more pleasure than if he's in me.

[ashuu20]

Do you not feel any pleasure from vaginal intercourse?

[Anonymous]

Thats very commen. Most women orgasm from foreplay rather than the actual sex part. I prefer foreplay too

[ashuu20]

Do you not feel any pleasure from vaginal penetration?

[Opinion Owner]

@ashuu20 yeah I do but foreplay more

[ashuu20]

Please rate the pleasure of vaginal penetration out of 10 when compared to foreplay?

[Opinion Owner]

@ashuu20 foreplay 10/10. Prenetation 8/10 at best

[ashuu20]

What kind of feeling do you feel inside your vagina during intercourse?

[Opinion Owner]

@ashuu20 you a dude?