I get horny and wanna lose my virginity?

I do, and I have a tinder. A couple of guys asked to "hook up" but I'm not about that life. I'm a virgin and want to lose it to a good right guy. But now I'm thinking differently, guys have been fucking me over and now I just wanna lose my virginity... call me stupid.. I don't know what to do.. this urges are hard.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Before you decide, you should really take the time to figure out if losing your virginity right away is something that you want, regardless of how horny you are lol. I'd ask myself, 1. How do I see my virginity? Do I put much value on it? Cus there are people who see their virginity as a big deal and some who don't. 2. Do i want to lose it to a casual fling or someone I'm in a relationship with? 3. How would I feel afterwards? Will I regret it? I would start off thinking about these questions, and if you do decide to have sex with a friends with benefit or casual fling, make sure the guy is someone you trust, is respectful, and makes you feel comfortable and doesn't pressure you. And always use protection!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Ok, remember that there are genuinly good guys with serious sexual frustration. I would know. Look for intelligens, it is often combined with both virtuos traits. And remember, virginity is just a silly social construct. The hymen heals, and doesn’t break if it's done gently, so if you want to just have sex, feel free, it's fun and awesome

  • You shouldn't just lose it because everyone else is doing it or because you think its popular to lose your virginity. When people get horny they can masturbate so they can control their urges. You'll regret it if you don't lose it to the right guy if that's what you really want for your first time.

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  • First time is never that great. But tinder is really only a hookup app.

  • Craiglist is another option.

  • If you're not finding the right guy but don't want to just give it to anyone ( which is great) maybe check out a toy shop? Get yourself a gift to give yourself a gift of sorts. Take it yourself.

  • I would try to find someone you like rather than just a meaningless hook up with a stranger. Just me though

  • Well you're on Tinder, so you won't get much romance... If you want to have sex with a good guy, then you need to live your life in a way that would encourage a good guy to come into it. Don't expect to run into him while you're out with your friends.

  • If you truly want to lose it then go for it. However you'll probably end up regretting it. Sex is great but it's better if it's with someone you actually care about.

  • Always do as YOU want when you think things through and genuinely want to.

    It's not such a big deal bring a virgin but what you don't want us to make a rash choice and end up in a bad place.

    Just my two cents. Speaking from my experience.

  • That's a slutty selfish Act. I feel sorry for your future husband

  • there isn't a question so immma report you

  • Just pleasure yourself to relieve yourself for the meantime until you meet me and want to lose it with me.

  • Don't just throw it away to some random person. You will regret it in the long run. Even if you think you won't right now.

  • Urges = masterbation love=sex at least for me I think hooking up is a dumb ads idea for guys or girls today with the sexual assault shit going around for girls you may jump in bed with a psycho and guys if you piss her off she might accuse you and your life is over, but that's just my opinion

  • Have sex with someone

  • Don't worry I'll save you from those horrible urges, come to (and then for) me 😘

    Seriously though, just get a toy for now and wait for the right guy.

  • I know what you mean, but I think that it's important that you lose your virginity to somebody you really know and trust. Not someone you just met. If you really want to lose your virginity to someone who isn't your boyfriend, I would say, do it with a good friend you like.

  • Uhhh guys have been fucking you over maybe don’t look on tinder... try I don't know like church join a club or get a hobby meet a guy like that assholes tend to go online

  • Come to me ;)

    • This post right here, officer

  • Then stop using tinder and go meet a guy in person

  • Find someone that is decent and that you think would be worth it, or ask some lady friends you trust with the topic for recommendations

  • Wow you sound hot sexy and horny 17163135687 Sext me

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