I get no pleasure out of dildo although I got it inside me?

I inserted a dildo inside me completely for the first time today. It took me a couple of tries and lube to get it that way much inside. It was about 4 inches inside me and then I got a weird feeling I never had before. Like something foreign was inside me. Also when I took it out I didn’t like the feeling as well. Anyone else experience this?

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  • I'm a guy so whilst I have no experience of dildos I do have experience of penetrating lots of girls.

    Now straight off the bat I suspect you weren't really aroused and inserting the dildo just didn't do anything for you.

    A past girlfriend and liked slow penetration at times. I would constantly press my cock in rather thrust. Initially just my cock tip would go in. Then waiting her entrance would open and my cockhead would get past the ring of muscle at her introitus then meet resistance again. More constant pressure.

    Progressively her vagina's resistance to my cock would let go and my cock would sink maybe half an inch or an inch at a time. Each time I went in a little deeper I would meet resistance and each time the resistance would give way. In time her vagina's resistance would completely let go and I would be slip-sliding away inside her.

    This is relatively close to what you were doing. Now aside from getting wet there is other stuff going on. Normally your vagina is like a collapsed tube folded on itself. It has to unfold as well as open up and it lengthens and the cervix pops up away from the incoming cock. Cock or dildo that is what has to happen.

    Now sexologists have measured girls wetness and have been surprised it doesn't correlate to the girls reports on their state of arousal. As it turns out an aroused girl is a wet girl but a wet girl isn't necessarily an aroused girl. Much as erect nipples can just be cold nipples. However clitoral erection does correlate really well with girls subjective state of arousal. Now clitoral tendrils wrap around your vagina so penetration can do magic but not all girls find it so. When I am fucking you the shaft of my cock is sliding over your clit.

    Now, as my girlfriend did, you might like the feeling of slow penetration or you might just feel the dildo is just a bit of unexciting plastic.

    Your feeling that it was something alien and foreign inside you was because it was alien and foreign.

    Look I am suspecting that you expected the dildo to be exciting and pleasurable but really you weren't turned on to begin with and the dildo didn't do anything to get you aroused. If I did to you with my cock what you did with the dildo I wouldn't expect you to get much out of it. You'd be right to call me a dud lay.

    Now you are in the mid 20's and I don't know what sexual experience you have to date. You might be a virgin or you could have a high body count for all I know. But my guess is you weren't horny before using the dildo and the wretched piece of plastic it was didn't do anything for you.

    I don't actually see that you ought to get turned by a dildo. The mind is the largest sex organ after all!
    Maybe a sexy book, a slow day some scented candle and a vibe or just your hands and fingers might be a lot better for you.

    Good luck.

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  • I'm not a woman. But as far as I know, this sounds perfectly normal. This is, basically what I might expect would be a woman's experience of inserting something substantial for the first time. Universal wisdom is, "that's... going to change and feel a whole lot better once your body becomes more accustom to insertion" (to be super unsexy about it).

    Now, if you are reading this thinking... wtf... I have tons of sex... my problem is with the first time I inserted a DILDO (can't this guy read). If THAT"s the case, then that's completely different, and I would be more concerned by why there might be that difference (allergy maybe)?

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  • i get loads of pleasure from my 7 inch dildo when i use it mines is on a stand to make it higher to press a button it has diffrent modes of vibration press a button and it goes in and out alone on diffrent modes to but sometimes i dont put the modes on i just lye back on my bed with my legs in the air put it in and out slow and then do it speedy with my own hands and also plung it in sore aswel and rub it off my clit aswel it help get u going more or ride it or sit on the edge of my bed and do it its made me cum koads of times sometimes i watch videos of me and my ex fucking or listning to the noises we make on a video with just the noise close my eyes and dream he's pumping me at thet point dream away

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  • I can’t speak from experience 😂 But I can’t say that I’ve heard many women say they prefer a real penis inside them thousands of times over in place of a dildo. There’s just something amazing about nature and both opposite body parts that are made for each other to be interfaced as one flesh

  • Never go in before warming up. You need to get in the mood and feel turned on or at least really wet. Mentally you should be in the mood to be fucked, and not just want to cum. These are two separate things. Try talking to a guy you’re thinking of or watch porn with the type of guy you would want to fuck. Start with teasing your Pussy with the dildo, and then when you want to feel it deeper, and be fucked…. That’s when you should first go in with it. As someone else mentioned…. You can give your clit a little play with your hands or a vibrator. Hope this helps.

    ps: there are a few good spots to hit if you get comfortable using it…. Either google or hit me up and I’ll explain.

  • Nope

  • Wasn't this asked before... like about a month ago?

  • The clit is more outside. Try a dick ring on the dildo. Had a little hook on top. Ladies love it.

  • 🤔🤔 I guess penetration is not your thing. Have you tried clitoral stimulation?

  • how old are you?

  • You were virgin and lost it for a dildo?

    • Not really. I tried with a boyfriend but he was big so he never got inside me that far..

    • Oh okai.. I think i know how to make you get pleasure with the dildo.. Can u follow me?

    • If its ok lol

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  • You should have finished

  • Did it manage to hit the spot inside at all? Maybe inserted wrong.

  • You can't ignore your clit! That would be like a guy just stroking his shaft and never touching the entire head of his penis.

  • It's normal for the first time.

    • It was very weird actually. As I pushed it all the way I felt like here it is!

    • That's how it feels. I'm not sure if you were, but if not do it when you are really horny