A lot of girls have trouble achieving a good full release for a variety of reasons.
First, don't worry if you can't cum from phone sex. I can't either and I'm a dude. It just doesn't do it for me.
Second, don't focus on the orgasm as a goal. Focus on enjoying the moment. Sex (Solo or Partners) is fun! Try to hyper-focus on how good it feels right now, and forget about wanting to cum. That may be enough to get past the block.
Vary your technique when masturbating if what you're doing doesn't get you off. Mix it up some. Just make sure you're comfortable, relaxed and slippery enough that it won't make you sore.
Try a vibrator too if you want to. Some girls that can't cum from fapping or from receiving oral can get off with a vibrator.
Whatever yo do though, don't focus on the big O. Think about how good it feels and just enjoy the moment. Immerse yourself in it and in how horny you are. Embrace those feelings and make love to em. Even if you don't cum you'll have a great time. :-)
Some girls I know can't cum by sex or fingering.
They can cum with good oral sex or vibrators.
Sometimes the clit is covered or just not that sensitive, and needs extra attention.
Keep experimenting and find what feels best, than expand on it.
Some examples of girls i know that need certain things to cum:
Large/long dick. Some need width to stretch (exposes clit) and some need long (hits cervix)
Oral sex. Tongue action, sucking. One girl takes a half hour of energetic mouth action
Anal. Hard to cum vaginally, but can pop one off anally
Vibrators. Never get tired or go soft, they supply the needed deep continuous stimulation
Have fun on your search, I hope you find the cummm.
Try asking him to mentally stimulate you. The hornier you are, the better you feel, the easiest it is for you to cum. Tell him to talk dirty to you. Ask him what he would do to you if you were around him right now. Get creative. Try different positions to masturbate in. Communication and creativity is key.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!There's a special technique for it although you may already know how to stimulate your g-spot..
You must not love him...
That's a little harsh. She is just a hard cum. Even when she masturbates, she can't cum, so it has nothing to do with him.
I don't think most girls can. It could be a lack of mental stimulation too
most girls can cum. it just takes getting to know what gets her horny and what she likes.
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