I give boyfriend NO SEX?

I read somewhere that sex starving your partner will maintain attraction and it seems to do the trick for us. Thoughts?
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He doesn’t “accept” anything, BUT his love for me is too strong and so he can’t walk and let someone else have me etc.
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Don’t bother unless you have something worthy to say!!
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  • If you have to play bullshit games to keep the relationship going the relationship should not be kept going.

    • Gtfo

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  • I half agree. You can't "control" anyone with your actions or lack of them. I think what you're doing will work right up to the point it doesn't. Then you might find him leaving you for someone who would sleep with him. And before you say you'd never let that happen keep in mind it may seemingly happen in the blink of an eye. Because you never know what's brewing in someones head.
    All a person can do is be honest and loving with their partner and hope it's returned.

    • What part do you agree with then?

    • I agree with the premise that you're doing it just to keep you two close to eachother. I don't agree wirh the manipulation. It never works longterm.

  • So you're withholding sex thinking that's good for your relationship?

    Haha it might "seem" like it's working but I can guarantee if you keep it up you'll be signing divorce papers in no time.

    Men are horny creatures if you're not giving it to him he'll find it somewhere else. Hell he might already be getting some behind your back.

    • He’s not the type. Some women (myself) are that amazing!!

    • Haha looks can be deceiving. Just saying he's not that type doesn't make it true. I mean hell some serial killers have a completely clean record. And others would say they never expected that person to do it. Until it's too late. Keep withholding sex and see what happens.

    • He’s religious, dumbass.

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  • If you find a guy who accepts this, good for you. I'd be long gone.

    • And that’s why you’re single. At 51!!

    • Honestly, better be single at this point than undergoing childish behaviors like that.

  • Sounds like your manipulating him into staying in a relationship that isn't working. Women shouldn't be expected to just put out whenever a man wants, and men shouldn't demand sex whenever they want, but there has to be some mutual respect to each others wants and needs. Your taking his wants and needs and using them as a carrot on a stick to keep him around. It's manipulative and unethical. You realize you may be permanently damaging his confidence right?

    • Well then why doesn’t he end things? Because he needs me too much.

    • Because you love bombed him. You probably showed him just enough attention and affection to get him hooked and now when he contemplates leaving he feels guilty to abandon all those you. Your giving him baggage that will take a long time to unpack.

    • WTF. He has RECEIVED ME. I’m a fucking goddess 🙄

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  • has the thought cross your mind he's likely getting sex from someone else in this absence? sorry you had to find out like this

  • Sounds highly manipulative. Do you not possess enough self worth to feel attractive without manipulative measures to feel validated? If I found out a girl was deliberately depriving me of sex out of insecurity, I’d most likely end it as that’s a major red flag. If you’re insecure about your partner maintaining attraction to you, why don’t you just talk to him about it and work on yourself?

    • Where the fuck did I say anything about insecurity? LOL sweetheart I look like Kim Kardashian’s doppelgänger and I can have anyone I want. Boyfriend is WELL aware of that so he obliges.

  • Lmao you're anon and trying to defend your actions 😂😂😂 I just pray no other women reading this think you are correct lol

    • Women think that I AM correct, sweetheart.

  • sounds like a mind game to me. A dealbreaker for me

    • It’s not a deal breaker cause he doesn’t know ☠️

  • No it's childish, toxic and will only make things worse in your relationship. It does not maintain attraction since you basically punish him out of nowhere, with no reason. You will only encourage him to leave you or cheat if he is that kind of guy.

  • You need to stop reading that crap

  • Withholding sex is mental and physically abusive. The same way that emotionally withdrawing and starving something of affection is abusive.

  • That’s hot! I want a penectomy and this forever

    • What?

    • My penis it off

    • My penis cut off

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