Girls, I got a handjob at a massage parlor while having a girlfriend and had to pay for it in the end?

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I got a hand job and had to pay for it. Should I tell my girlfriend or Should I keep it to myself? I could hold from having this messause do this to me because she caught me at a vulnerable state... What should I do? I love this girl to much to tell her this.

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by the way she never pleases me when I ask or even act or send signals and is always saying she's to tired and things like that

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SarahsSummer Master
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You should tell her and set your conscience free. If it's meant to be, she'll forgive you and move on in the relationship. Why didn't you just ask your girl for the hand job?
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- Asker
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  Cuz I have and she doesn't do it
- SarahsSummer
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  Ohh, you may be able to use that to your advantage. Good luck.
- Asker
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  I don't want to though I'm not that type of guy but she never want to be sexual with me anymore
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- Asker
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  And this stuff happened I'm now
- SarahsSummer
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  Then why do you love her too much?
- Asker
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  Cuz she's so amazing personality wise and gives me reason to live I tell her all this stuff but what just happened obviously... I know what I did was wrong but I couldn't help it when I was getting action from someone who caught me at a vulnerable point
Aleaj101 Xper 4
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Whatever your gut tells you too do... she wouldn't probably tell you she could have done it for free 😂😂 but if my boyfriend did that I'd be hella pissed
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- Asker
  +1 y
  She never want to give me a hand job or oral or sex... She has before but doesn't want to anymore I'm trying to be nice about it but this shot just happened so I'm now
- Aleaj101
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  Are you bored with her?
- Asker
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  No but I want more from her and she doesn't want to act on what I ask... And I didn't expect what happened today to happen
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- Aleaj101
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  Well it's sad that your girlfriend doesn't help you with your needs.. do you please her a lot?
- Asker
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  I try to as much as possible... Please what Should I do... Should I just tell her and it it over with? I don't want to but I don't want to bring her down by saying that I was deprived if the need for sexual favors from her... I'm a man and I need that but I feel guilty for what happened...
- Aleaj101
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  I would want my boyfriend too tell me.. but things might end of you say something. But I think it's the right thing too do
- Asker
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  Fuck... Well I guess I'll tell her then how should I approach her and how do I ease into it or should I just say it outright?
- Aleaj101
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  Just be like instead of me keeping this from you I couldn't because it's not the right hing too do and I rather be honest with you more then anything and just tell her what happens and how you felt

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throwit Guru
+1 y
Tel her so she's knows what a scumbag you are
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- Asker
  +1 y
  What if she never wants to have sexual relations but teases me all the time? She does this actually
Prettygurl12 Master
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Welp you're a terrible human being.

Tell her so she can leave you.
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- Asker
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  Is it a problem when the woman doesn't ever fulfill you sexual need then? When when you let her know before hand that you need it bad?
- Asker
  +1 y
  by the way we have had sex before but she never wants to do it anymore so I'm what to do
- Prettygurl12
  +1 y
  You're falling on deaf ears here, bud. You cheated because apparently you can't be loyal so to me, and to your girlfriend once you tell her, you're scum and might as well not exist.
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- Asker
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  Can u just answer my question a little more open heartedly please I just would like to know for futures sake please... How should I approach her so it doesn't hurt her so much and how do I explain to her that I needed more sexual action but this happened and we need to separate