I got drunk and gave 3 guys head? What do I do?

[Anonymous]

me and my friends went on a night out into the city and me and one of my friends were so drunk we didn't get in to the club... So we decided to go to McDonalds and obviously there was a lot of young people around (most of whom were drunk) and my friend wanted to go bathroom so she went down this lane near the club and there was loads of guys that we knew (but weren't friends with them) and well I was drunk and gave 3 of them head... What should I do?

[Bugiman]

It's kinda weird you started giving head to random strangers.
Honestly you might have to consider alcohol isn't your thing.

But don't try to get yourself too down on it either. I assume you don't have a boyfriend. So I mean basically you're a free woman and you can do what you want.
However even if you feel the need to live out some sexual fantasies it's better to do it discrete and with concious mind. it will be safer when you are sober and you won't build a slut image. This world can be very judgy. And you don't want to be that girl that all the guys get drunk to get some head.

[DodgersGM]

Go get a full STD panel just to be safe.

If this behavior is something you'd like to avoid in the future, then consider how you can put yourself in better positions to maintain your morals. For example, cut back on the drinking.

[DodgersGM]

I saw your update: "no I didn't catch anything" Ummm, you have no way of being 100% certain of that. You should go get tested; that'd be the responsible, adults thing to do. It's very easy to do, ya know.

[Asker]

I did and I know, it been a few months since it happens also

[Asker]

Also I rarely drink, this was one of my first times drinkjng ,

[DodgersGM]

Oh okay, well that's good that you got yourself tested. And you're lucky to have not picked anything up -- that must have been a relief. When do you mean when you ask "What do I do?"

[Asker]

Like I feel bad about myself, I've never done anything like this before.. I just want to move on with life but keep dwelling on this

[DodgersGM]

I see. Well, first you need to forgive yourself for breaking your own morals (assuming you broke them, of course). I mean, you're only human. You're going to make mistakes in life, so you've gotta learn to give yourself some grace. Also consider the circumstances that fueled the situation. For example, it'd be a good idea to steer clear of heavy drinking. It might also be a good idea to reexamine how you feel about sex. Is it something you don't want to participate in casually? And if so, why not? Thinking about these things can make you reflect on your values, as well as reaffirm your morals.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[jacquesvol]

Indeed. Only tests will tell. for some STIs it takes months to be visible in tests and years to be full blown.

[26ukdude]

@jacquesvol "Full blown" very clever

[Cmasterson]

What do you do? Well it depends on how you feel about it right? No one can tell you how to feel, may be more than the average does a night however don't hate yourself. You made that choice, just be careful next time because it was quite careless, you have no idea if they have anything! So next time just don't let your drunken wants control you.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[heywat]

Well what's done is done. You can't change it, but you can learn from it. My first thought is to make sure you didn't come in contact with any STDs. Then just control your drinking enough to make sure you aren't that impulsive again

[Carly73]

They were sober

[heywat]

@Carly73 meaning?

[heywat]

@Carly73 are you wanting to charge them with rape or something?

[Araya]

Repeat "this Friday night". TGIF, am I right? ;D

Lol. Nothing. It happened. There's nothing that you can do. Just make sure that next time you keep water bottles in your purse and make sure to pace yourself when drinking. :)

[Carly73]

They were sober

[Araya]

@Carly73 She stated that she was drunk in the beginning of the question. I was talking about her, not the guys.

[Carly73]

The guys were sober

[Anonymous]

Take responsibility and move on.
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[Asker]

Like I've never done anything like this at all before.. ANYTHING..

[Opinion Owner]

Well what do you want to happen?
https://i.imgur.com/O2mhAPS.jpg?1

[Asker]

Like I want to move in and forget about it

[Asker]

Move on

[Opinion Owner]

Then do that but never drink again as you can't act responsibly under the influence. You don't want it happening all over again.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Go get tested and after that, get higher standards.

[Asker]

Please be helpful and make me feel better, I know I didn't catch anything

[BuchitaBuchys]

Tough love babygirl. What if they were in a relationship? What if they had a disease? What if they were gonna do something to hurt you? I'm not just saying this to be a judgmental bitch, but you need to beware of the consequences this type of behavior has.

[Asker]

Wgat do you mean what if they were in a relationship? how can I move on and forget it?

[RasmusAiken]

Go to your friends and tell them face to face that you really regret it and apologize for having them see that. Then forget it. In time you will.

[NJ_Casanova]

Find better friends to hangout with that would keep you from acting like that, protect you when your drunk.. even from yourself.

[solivagant]

Go get drunk once again but this time on tequila and forget all about it. Oh you will... ;)

[AleDeEurope]

You can't do anything else, just embrace your sluttiness :)

[Carly73]

They were sober

[BertMacklinFBI]

take a kickboxing class.

[ClariceOwen23]

How did you post twice? o_o

[BuchitaBuchys]

How were you able to post twice? Lol

[BertMacklinFBI]

@ClariceOwen23 @BuchitaBuchys holy fuck me lol!!

[BertMacklinFBI]

@ClariceOwen23 @BuchitaBuchys wait nooooo. i remember typing this comment out, it was for a different question where the girl gave a guy head in the park. not the 3 dudes at mcdonalds.

[BertMacklinFBI]

@ClariceOwen23 @BuchitaBuchys I'm gonna assume there was a glitch in the system, and the question was posted by the same account.

[ClariceOwen23]

Hmm... Maybe it was flagged as a duplicate or something

[BertMacklinFBI]

whats done is done.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[daintydollface]

There's nothing you can do now, what's done is done, just put it down to a drunken mistake / regret and learn from it.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[Soshy]

Go and get tested and pray you didn't catch anything.

[VerNauPap]

well first worry about if they are assholes and posted anything incriminating online.

no diseases - good.

alcohol brings out what is inside you, so maybe this is what you really like deep down and wouldn't do it...

[Carly73]

They were sober

[VerNauPap]

@Carly73 of course they were sober - they saw the opportunity to 3 way a nice lady and took it. im talking about you... alcohol drops inhibitions and if you keep drinking like that - its going to be a messy couple of years giving random guys at parties blowjobs and letting them fuck you!

[VerNauPap]

I dont think its slutty either - its who you are. But are you at ease with that?

[Carly73]

Drank twice ever, just how to move on?

[VerNauPap]

@Carly73 there is nothing wrong with what you did, i think its hot and natural. Its you making peace and being aware that you have those kinds of impulses when you drink. protect yourself - because people are cruel and will judge you and try to hurt you protect yourself from diseases of course thats it

[Carly73]

People are saying 'slut' etc.

[VerNauPap]

@Carly73 next time - dont tell anybody about it. if you think you are going to get naughty.. hang out with guys that can keep their mouth shut sweetie... people are cruel

[VerNauPap]

@Carly73 you can't undo what people know... thats the fucked up part! keep away from them - start new friends

[TripleAce]

Pretty slutty

[BuchitaBuchys]

And risky.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[theguyisback]

Wel there's not much you can do after the fact.. How do you feel about it? Do you feel gross?

[Carly73]

They were sober

[Chief16]

Just forget about it, could've been a lot worse though. You should abstain from booze.

[Carly73]

They were sober also

[26ukdude]

Ahh the good old alcohol excuse. What you did was degrading to yourself and slutty. I feel sorry for you. Maybe this will be a lesson. And by the way you may have caught something you might just not know about it yet.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[26ukdude]

@Carly73 No they weren't. "me and my friends went on a night out into the city and me and one of my friends were so drunk we didn't get in to the club... So we decided to go to McDonalds and obviously "

[Carly73]

They guys were

[26ukdude]

@Carly73 and? it still doesn't mean she didn't get STD's from their cum?

[Bandit74]

You blew three guys in the Mcdonald's restoom 😦

[cinderelli]

you celebrate and get drunk once more..

[biguyct]

yes!!!

[cinderelli]

@biguyct and this guy will be there next time.. lol.. 😃😄

[biguyct]

i would love to be in the line up! lol :P

[meatballs21]

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You don't have to do anything. It's not like you can go back and change it, just learn your lesson and move on with your life.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[TonyRyan]

Try for six this weekend, go big or go home, right?

[alfonsosloan45]

I feel like when you get drunk your inner self is shown. I guess you really like sucking dick.

[JSmuve]

*slow clap* bravo. Well done. I'm sure your parents would be really proud, etc.

I'd love to see how this was all instigated.

"Hey random chick that we barely know, blow me"
"Uhhhh okay, but its cheaper with a group discount sooo you three form a line" *stumbles over*

Perhaps you should stop drinking until you can learn to make smarter decisions.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[ClumsyAngel]

I don't think you might forget... I don't think your friends will forget either...
Just accept that it happened, and learn from it :(

[CaliSoccerFella]

well... not sure you can do anything now... you gave em all head and thats done now ahha

I assume you swallowed each time?

[ThatBritishLad]

Well, not much.

[gapminder]

Hmmm, that doesn't happen by accident.
That was just her inner whore coming out.
And "I was drunk" isn't a valid excuse for BLOWING 3 GUYS.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[gapminder]

@Carly73 ok, those guys are dicks for taking advantage of her, it reminds me of this. ...
https://youtu.be/Xbw_BxDwdjk

[Carly73]

Everyone is being mean saying 'slut' etc.

[gapminder]

@Carly73 yeah she's not a slut. Three guys took advantage of her plain and simple.

[Carly73]

How to move on?

[gapminder]

@Carly73 you have to forgive and be supportive. That's what friends do.

[johnanamoly]

To completion?

[blondfrog]

Using drinking as an excuse is pretty pathetic when you're drunk you still know what you are doing so clearly you wanted to do it its nobody elses fault but your for regretting it we all make mistakes and we all regret thinks regarding if we are druunk or sober that's just life.

[Sojex]

Hope there ain't any pics or videos floating around

[jakeofalltrades]

make better choices int he future

[Under_The_Sun]

Well, appart from checking for STDs, I don't think you should do anything. Why should you? What aere you concerned about?

[apexalpha]

Nothing you can do its not like you can take back a head

[abc--123]

Depends if you enjoyed the experience or not?

[Mybeachlife88]

Just do it again... then have more fun with him... you obviously did it for a reason. Don't be ashamed just because friends saw.

[biguyct]

nothing you had fun right?

[happymike16]

You should ashamed don't blame being drunk that's nasty

[Anonymous]

why did you do that.. drunk doesn't mean you do bj

[Anonymous]

If you didn't catch anything I guess my advice would be to forgive and forget. We all make mistakes. No big deal. You don't ever need to mention it again if you don't want to.

[Anonymous]

They were sober

[Anonymous]

They are lucky...

[Anonymous]

You should write with permanent marker on your forehead "Dumbass".
This is why people should not drink Alcohol outside of their house. What if you caught STD's or something? Having Sex with someone you love is one thing but now you've got random peoples germs and traces of urine in your system. Think about it and don't do it again. Plus these guys will probably consider you a whore and will likely tell other people you know.
Honest advice.

[Carly73]

They were sober

[Anonymous]

give to other 3 while you are sober to balance it out... .