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I got my first bj. but I felt nothing! help

Its like I don't get aroused anymore. what is wrong with me
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no I was not nervous. I don't even feel to masturbate anymore. what can I do to bring back my high levels of arousal?
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his has seemed to happen all of a sudden in November last year. I have absolutely no stress, and I am definitely not gay. no I could not even get hard while we were making out. wtf
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ok what I will do is stop masturbating and looking at p*rn for the next months. I did that at one point a year ago, and I became so easily hard just by touching myself and turned on so easily. I will abstain again and that doesn't work I would have to see a doctor. But what kind of doctor?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You could be gay and not know it yet and not be aroused by a girl.

    You could be depressed.

    You could be so used to p*rn that normal-level sexual activity isn't as exciting as the hardcore stuff you're used to seeing.

    OR the girl sucked SO bad that she ruined your arousal level at all. I know when I gave a guy his first blowjob I was sh*tty at it too but he came in about 20 seconds and still loved it. SO if you didn't feel anything nice, then the girl must have done something totally wrong, or she was using her teeth, or you just had an unfortunate bj experience. IF you didn't feel anything it's not that something's wrong with you, the girl just sucked at giving head.

  • maybe you're just having erection problems...ive heard of heaps of medicine/tablets for that. But yeah, should definitely see your doctor! could be a result of another health problem? its best to get that checked out.

  • If its changed dramatically from what it used to be, you should go get that checked out by a doctor. As you age, your arousal levels decrease somewhat, but that's gradual and shouldn't effect you that much.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Maybe you were so nervous you had a hard time enjoying.

    • Did you start talking an anti depressant? If not yes I would see a general doctor. A loss of sex drive can be a health problem.

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  • It's because you watch a lot of p*rn.

  • Either she wasn't doing the right thing or there is something wrong with your sex drive.

  • You have never had sex I'm guessing. It could be a sign of depression. I guess you could be gay and might not know it yet but whatever it is you have to get to the root of your problem.

  • were you at least hard? maybe she wasn't good at giving bj's.

  • 30-35 huh? Did you buy that bj?

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