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I GOT PREGNANT BUT PULLED HE PULLED OUT?

I just found out I am 12 weeks pregnant (had no symptoms or anything) also no bump.

I had been seeing the father on and off for fun for a year. We would only hook up twice a month on a drunken bender.

Well the last time I saw him (the night i conceived) I strictly remember we had sex for about 10-20 minutes BUT he pulled out and I finished him off my giving him a hand job.
So when he came it was from me giving him a handjob?

im so pissed off help
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CAN GUYS LEAK PRE-CUM EVEN THOUGH THEY aren't READY TO CUM AT ALL
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IM SO CONFUSED SOME OF YOU ARE SAYING PRECUM HAS SPERM IN IT OTHERS SAYING IT doesn't? THE ONES WHO ARE SAYING IT doesn't, WELL I GUESS YOU ARE WRONG
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  • American sex ed (when you're fortunate enough to even GET it) is woefully inadequate.
    "Keep 'em ignorant and frightened and MAYBE they won't VAGINALLY copulate." General consensus IS that in unimpeded copulation, ON AVERAGE 'fertilization' occurs 25% of vaginal penetration. And YET...
    the ignorant persist in playing 'russian roulette' with a revolver having ONLY FOUR chambers with ONE LOADED with "parent" juice! WRAP that damned rascal or stick to ANAL OR ORAL!!! Girls as young as 4yrs 7 months have become pregnant. LOOK IT UP! Sweetheart, HE BEGAN cumming the moment he became ERECT (I speak from life experience) The pre-cum is his contribution to your lubrication.

    (You DO know... you CAN'T get impregnated from oral, anal or fingering foreplay or ejaculation.
    BUT... 'the societal powers-that-be' ABSOLUTELY don't want pre-teen kiddos AWARE they can self- or peer-pleasure EITHER!
    The self-same adolescent hedonists who'd foreplay might NOT wash their paws and transmit STD's )

    Preteen kids should be made to look under a microscope into a SINGLE DROP of what's called 'PRE-cum' ejaculate. You would see THOUSANDS of frisky little spermatozoa, ... excited as God/ Nature intended them to be, 'schooling' about... just itching to swim the triathalon of THEIR lifetime in some vaginal canal, up past the defenses of the Uterus seeking out a nice RIPE Ovum somewhere along the Fallopian tubes. You're 'horny' the week prior to your menses for a REASON!

    Its still open for conjecture if the sperm act co-operatively with SOME acting to block the Vagina's acidic defenses that others might get ever farther to unite with that Ova, who then locks out ALL OTHER of kindred sperm in favor of the most persistent.

    Whomever took 'credit' for your "the talk" (parent, church or community) gets to take at least partial 'credit' for the naïve ignorance for these gaps in YOUR understanding which brought you TWO (he doesn't get off AFTER getting off) to YOUR circumstances~

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  • Precum does not contain sperm by itself. He most likely ejaculated shortly before he had sex with you, maybe even together, up to you to tell us. The remaining ‘column’ of semen inside his penis was pushed out by the new precum he made when you had the 10-20 minute sex. Only one drop of semen needs to touch your cervix for a pregnancy risk / chance to occur regardless of orgasm from his side.

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  • Hey men drip so if you didn't use a condom then of course it can happen
    Some woman would love to be able to get pregnant that easily!
    But being that you are crying out for help and clearly stated your pissed... Ya You are definitely not considering this a blessing
    Sorry I'm a bit bitter since having a loss myself this last month.
    I suppose you need to calm down and think this out. You are not a child. You are a grown woman. Think it out rationally.
    First step if your haven't done so yet is to get your butt to a doctor. You need to see an OB.
    You need to check on your health and the health of the fetus. Once you make sure your in good health you need to ask yourself What do you need and what do you want? Lay out the scenario.
    If you are keeping the child or looking at alternatives. Then there's the issue of dealing with the man.
    You are facing quite a life changing scenario. I don't not Envy your situation of having an unplanned pregnancy or having to tell an man you had a fling with that your preg... Sadly I know there are many women who would be envying the actual pregnancy. That said you have choices. You just need to calmly sit down and go over them all.
    Are you keep the babe or not keeping the babe? Hey I am a mom and my first pregnancy was a bit of a shock. I certainly didn't know if I "could do this" but I kept my babe and I can tell you I don't reget it at all. I wish you the best.
    Just stay calm.

    • Oh and my second babe was a shock too but I love both my babes. They are my pride and joy. I wasn't planning either one of them. My first my daughter... my boyfriend forced himself on me when I packed up and told him I was leaving his ass... The second I was studying and training. I was on birth control and caught bronchitis I went to a different pharmacy than my own. They never labeled the bottle as WILL AFFECT BIRTH CONTROL... Well 9 weeks later after no symptoms except crankiness someone mentioned my Moodiness and joked about me seeming pregnant I chewed them out which was very unlike me and then as they left my apartment I was still fuming but wondering why the heck I'm acting so mean and LIGHT BULB 💡... When was my last period? Run to calendar oh boy 9weeks late... That was about 9 years ago and I love every moment with my boy.

    • Thank you so much for all the advice, you don’t sound bitter you are realistic. I have to clarify some things though, i was on birth control and have been for years (why I didn’t get pregnant for so long) BUT about a week or so BEFORE I must have conceived I had been taking a medication that I was UNAWARE could counteract the point of the pill, which obviously did. Also my mum had picked up the prescription for me so they pharmacist could have said something but it’s ultimately my funky in the end. Extremely bad luck. I had been seeing said guy for over a year, good friends and trusted him and knew him enough to have sex without a condom (relying on pull out and birth control) I have just started a career working my way up in astronomy so a child right now would be the worst ring and I’m so sorry that there are people that can’t conceive I do feel like a major idiot and defying all these odds it’s almost like it’s a miracle. I have told the father and he said that “he didn’t cum in me” so why am I accusing him then he blocked me 🙃🙃🙃🙃

    • Oh man I'm sorry the guy is taking that approach. Well think about it carefully it's your choice and in one way you can see it as a miracle. I was working on my career too when I conceived my second I was so scared if my job found out they would fire me because I was new there and still on observation and on a "probation" status with them. I hid my pregnancy for months until I couldn't. Months later It actually benefit me better to quit that job to take another with the same position but paided better and best part they allowed me to bring my child to work. I am very glad I choose my babe over the fear of not accomplishing my career because 1st I did accomplish my goals and 2nd through events I could not foreseen or predict I was seriously injured and I unfortunately was no longer to work that career. The career did me well while I had it but it was just not meant for me to do forever. My point we never know what life has in-store for us we just have to count our blessings when we get them and sometimes things happen for a reason. I love both my babes even if they were unplanned during a difficult time and I'm actually thankful now for loosing my job I worked so hard for. a year later My grandfather was diagnosed with dementia and my workman comp payments allowed me to stay home. I was able to stay home and move my grandfather in with me. He lived with me for 5 years before he passed. If I hadn't been jobless at that time I wouldn't have been able to help him. Not all unplanned life curve balls turn out bad 😉. Your gonna be ok. One step at a time.

  • Okay, so anon, if you're really the age you say you are, you should know better! I'm not going to lecture you, but if you're old enough to be having sex, you should know that you can get pregnant from the "pull out" method.
    That's why I laugh when people say that's an effective form of birth control...IT'S NOT.

    That's called not using proper birth control and you're playing russian roulette. And unfortunately you learned the hard way what happens-

    I work in a hospital and see tons of teenagers and young women coming in because their boyfriends supposedly pulled out in time, yet now they're pregnant.

    • I was on and had been on birth control for years but shortly before conceiving I was on a medication that could make the pill ineffective (my fault didn’t do my research) I had known the guy for 6+ years but only started sleeping together a year ago, I trusted him enough to have sex without a Condon just relying on pull out and birth control so ultimately I got bad luck

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  • No intelligent person would ever rely on the withdrawal method for birth control. In practice, about 25% of all couples of childbearing age who rely on the withdrawal method get pregnant each year. Be angry at yourself for not using a more effective method of birth control.

    • I WAS ON THE PILL TOO!!! But found out the antibiotic I was taking could have made it ineffective

  • well fucking duh. the pull out "method" is one of the least effective and is NOT a birth control method that should ever be relied on.

    • He also PULLEE OUT waayyyy before cumming. We were having sex and he pulled out to smoke BUT I just ended up finishing him off with my hand So how could he have pre-cum IF he didn’t cum till much later

    • ... you're only proving you're even more of an idiot than first thought.

    • Sounds really fishy that he would stop in the middle to have a smoke. And the just having a handjob. I think you saw the end of end of the round 2.

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  • Pulling out doesn't work because precum has just as much sperm as the money shot cum.

    • I wouldn't say as much lol but depending on the guy it can definitely have sperm in it

  • The pull out method does not work. Precum can have sperm in iy. Use a condom every time

  • Sperm has two jobs. Stick and swim.

  • I would say this would be the wrong time to visit Texas.

  • Yeah so pull out method has been long known as ineffective as we leak precum while erect and it relatively easy to become pregnant that way.

    • He also PULLEE OUT waayyyy before cumming. We were having sex and he pulled out to smoke BUT I just ended up finishing him off with my hand So how could he have pre-cum IF he didn’t cum till much later

    • Precum starts way way before ejaculation and can happen as soon as a man starts to get turned on even before an erection. It has a couple of functions, firstly to neutralise the PH level for the safe passage for sperm and then as a lubricant. Initially precum doesn't have sperm in it but it can increase as intercourse progresses. So people never have sperm in their precum but there is not way to know. While the chances are low of getting pregnant from precum but it is still possible.

  • Just be responsible for your decisions. If you're not prepared for the long term side effects of 🍆 you shouldn't be having sex

  • Pissed off? What did you expect? Withdrawal is not a reliable means of birth control. Why didn’t you suspect that you were pregnant after missing your period? Twice? It’s not too late to terminate the pregnancy.

    • BECAUSE I HAD BEEN ON B. C for OVER A YEAR AND hadn't HAD A PERIOD IN 8MONTHS so I ASSUMED IT WAS BECAUSE OF THAT

    • Oh, wow! Sorry. You didn’t mention that you were using BC that suppressed menstruation.

  • there could have been semen in his pre cum when he was still inside you

    • I didn’t feel anything and we had been screwing over a year (him pulling out) never got pregnant

    • Also he didn’t cum until about 10 minutes after he asked inside me (I gave him a handjob to finish him off)

    • you wouldn't always feel precum as its a small ammount that oozes out but you got preggo somehow and im guessing you dont imagine you are the modern maddona so its either that or he lied and did cum in you

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  • U can get pregnant from pregnant cum 😑 its crazy how many people don't know this

    • I was also on the pill but had been taking an antibiotic then that made it ineffective. I’m truly in the shit

    • His anti biotic messed up your pill😅 are u sure u was not taking the pill properly

    • Yeah I was the doctor even said the medication screws the effects of the pill

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  • Well you're pregnant now so you need to make sure the father is there for your kid. Make sure you're financially stable and get the support you need.

  • It's simply a known fact that pre-cum does contain sperm, just not as much, but as you are aware, it only takes one.

  • You clearly know very little about this stuff so I have to ask.. how old are you?

    Let me explain you this way.. I always use condoms when I have sex and I can often see little bit of sperm in the condom before I am even close to ejaculating. That's just proof that some sperm can come out earlier without us even feeling it come out.
    Also.. pullout method? Really? Just use condoms or birth control...

    • To answer you update on the question. Precum DOES NOT HAVE sperm in it. That's just something condoms manufacturers say to sell more condoms. HOWEVER, precum CAN mix with sperm and therefore get you pregnant. Precum and sperm come out the same tube. So if there are some sperm in the penis precum might push it out is it is going out itself. One of the scenarios this can happen is if he recently came (ejaculated) and there is now some leftover sperm still inside his penis that precum will now push out if he starts having sex. In conclusion, precum doesn't have sperm in it by default but as it is coming out of the penis it can mix with some leftover sperm in the penis.

    • How does that make sense? He was inside me for about 10 minutes then pulled out ONLY to smoke he wasn’t ready to cum yet I could tell by his expressions and from previous experience. About 10 minutes after i gave him a hand job and he came full all over my hand.

    • I just told you everything. Accept it.

  • All it takes is 1 to sneak out and find its target.
    So that type of birth control, as you found out, sadly is not all that effective.

  • Were you not paying attention in Sex Ed or was this just never taught? Pre-cum is enough to get a woman pregnant. I thought this was common knowledge and was one of the main reasons I never understood why women refused to wear protection or take birth control... um... congrats, mom?

    • I forgot to mention in the description I was and had been on birth control BUT shortly before conceiving I was taking a medication that I was unaware made the pill ineffective (my fault for not researching

    • what are your plans now?

    • I really don’t know. Told the father over message and his response was “I didn’t cum in you why are you accusing me” then blocked me 🙃🙃🙃

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  • Yeah, the pullout method is the least effective way at preventing pregnancy. Precum has sperm in it and guys can start leaking precum way beforr they orgasm

  • Here's the definitive answer. Guys can leak pre-cum without even having an erection. That's one of the reasons why the guy is supposed to be wearing a condom when he is in you. Sorry. That's a tough life lesson.

  • Yes, pre-ejaculate contains live sperm, and yes a girl or woman can get pregnant with pre-ejaculate as soon, as he sticks it in you, a girl or woman can get pregnant

  • Yes just pulling out isn't enough. There is pre cum which is basically cum that comes out when they're getting a little excited, so before the actual climax, hence 'pre'

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