I had a dream I cheated on my boyfriend with a guy from work and enjoyed it. Why? What to do to get over this?

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  • Besides this dream, is this someone you think about at all otherwise? Do you like this other guy? If it's just the dream, dreams are random. It doesn't necessarily "mean" anything. I've had dreams I've been falling to my death, has it ever happened, no. Maybe the fantasy is exciting for you, but it doesn't mean you're necessarily going to act on it or that you love your boyfriend any less. You "get over it" by not thinking about it. Stop thinking it "means something" and carry on with your day to day life like it never happened. Now you can look at your relationship with your boyfriend, are you 100% happy with him. Are there things you would change or would like different. If so then you can work on those by communication with your boyfriend. But otherwise chalk this up to just a random dream.

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  • You know actually "our dreams" they are all connected? Some actions that i have in my dreams i keep it to myself, like a journal... and for example... if you "break up" with ur boyfriend, and end up with ur working colleague then you can call it as a " Dejavu", as it did happened "before"... just keep that in mind... and specially that you liked it also... so.. yeah take notes of what u dream and like, and "other" dreams too that are connected with your real life... and you will see later...😉

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  • To get over it, just forget it. It was a dream.

  • I THINK the only way is to cheat with me LMAO that way it's stops all and everything goes back to normal lol

    • Hahaha this guy

  • Dream interpretation is very interesting!
    There could be many reasons for the dreams, but meaningful and not.
    Hmu if you want to talk about it

  • depends where it came from... i mean if its just a fantasy thing then you can masturbate over the thought and get on with your day but if you really have some romantic feelings for the other guy then you may need to do some soul searching

  • Thats normal and doesn’t mean anything.

  • It's probably an innocent fantasy, but if you can't stop thinking about the guy at work you need to figure out what you're going to do about it.

  • You should carry out this dream and tell your boyfriend afterward possibly dumping him in the process with a sorry note

  • Forget the dream, concentrate on work, hobby.
    Do activitis, walk, park, sports...
    Keep you minde busy all the time

  • Your acting like it actually happened. Just forget about the dream and never mention it to your boyfriend.

  • You'll forget about it as times goes by

  • It's your brain playing tricks. You have seen something or someone and it has triggered a response in your subconscious.
    You are not on your own that this happens. I've had it probably all on this site has...

  • you must live

  • Just rember random fantasies happen an as long as you dont do it its not a big deal

  • Relax & Fuck.

  • Sleep with the guy from work; get it out of your system

  • It’s only a dream, relax
    Your subconscious is capable of anything, it’s not real!

  • Hmmm what a hot fantasy.. you are a hot naughty girl 😈😈😈

  • Dreams are meaningless but do you have a crush on your coworker

  • İts only dream. Do not think a lot

  • have a threesome with them both

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