I had anal today with my boyfriend for like an hour and when he pulled out there was poop On his d he cleaned it off didn’t seem to bother him but I am very embarrassed how can I prepare better?
Poop is gonna happen occasionally if you do anal. Good on him for not making an issue of it. Any guy who complains when it happens does not deserve the privilege of doing me that way and he'll never get it again.
As far as preparing, lots of people will say to use an enema, but I never do anymore. They are a huge hassle and they end up creating their own kind of mess, because unless you do it at least a few hours ahead of time, there will be residual liquid up inside that won't work its way out until you start having sex. And it won't be clear liquid when it does, if you know what I mean.
When we do anal I just listen to my body. Poop stays up in your sigmoid colon until you're ready to poop, at which time it drops down into your rectum. You'll feel it when that happens. I can tell when I'm in good shape to have anal sex, and when I'm not. It's not a perfect science, but it's really uncommon for us to have any sort of poop involved. When there is, it's usually just a little fleck or pebble that he can just wipe off with a towel or tissue and get back to business. It's a good idea to have that on hand if you're going to do anal.
If that bothers anyone, they should not be having anal sex. That's the bottom line (pardon the pun).
Also, don't be embarrassed. It's out of your control, and like I said, if it bothers him he shouldn't be doing anal anyway.
Some good advice by the Anonymous Girl. I would add that your guy should clean his dick thoroughly straight away using soap and hot water. Even if there is no visible poop. There are bacteria that live happily in your bum that can give him an infection. He can pass that on to you during unprotected vaginal sex.
Sorry for your experience. It's gonna happen sometimes if you engage in anal sex. But based on my experience with my wife over the last four years, it doesn't happen very often. We have done anal sex countless times and I can only remember a small handful of times when poop has been involved, and it's never a big deal. Definitely not the nightmare scenarios some people worry about.
Something to keep in mind is that the inside of your ass is very smooth, much smoother than your vagina. If there is any poop in there, he will feel it due to the obvious contrast in texture, so it's not like he will just be oblivious to it and not notice until there is a big mess. It's easy to recognize right away and stop if course conditions are not favorable.
My wife doesn't do anything in particular to prepare. She'll just tell me if she feels like it's not a good time for anal. We like to be more spontaneous, and doing things like an enema or "colon cleanse", like one poster suggested, is over the top and really not necessary.
Do a colon cleanse.
I did one 3 weeks ago because I had a colonoscopy.
Of course, I had prescriptions for the liquid and pills that I needed to take, but, Lord knows, within 12 hours, my intestines were as clean as virgin snow.
You can do the same thing without a prescription, but it does take work over a few days.
my.clevelandclinic.org/.../21217-miralax-gatorade-bowel-preparation-instructions
Do that, and the next time his wiener is in your butt, it will come out pristine.
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I know when I put my dick in a woman's asshole that there's a possibility of that, it's part of the job.
Hold it in
And also don’t do it for more than 30 min
You could always try an enema first.
Short of giving yourself an enema there isn’t much you can do. If he wasn’t bothered by it, don’t sweat it either.
Was your butt sore after an hour of being penetrated? Did you enjoy it?
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