I had sex with a guy once and then he ghosted me. Do you think it’s my fault?

Like, do you think he just hated me as a person or hated having sex with me?
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  • Unfortunately there are a lot of people who do this, not just guys too.

    Please don't think something is wrong with you. I'm guessing you expected to have a serious relationship with this guy and had strong feelings for him. He took advantage of your feelings to get what he wanted --> sex. There's no doubt right now he's out there on Tinder or any other dating app trying to get laid again. Some individuals will never want to settle and keep trying to find new game.

    Don't beat yourself up. But just to be on the safe side you should get tested. He might have been sleeping around before you guys met.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No, you did nothing darling. He's just being a dumb guy and got what he wanted. Unfortunately, some guys are jerks. They get what they want and leave.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would tend to think the more likely reason is that he got what he wanted and then moved on to someone else. If he hated you as a person, then why would he have had sex with you in the first place? I think you're overthinking it. Just let it go and find someone else. That's the best revenge you can hope for.

  • Either he had an issue that he wouldn't speak up about like an adult or ge was just using you for sex from the beginning.

    You didn't do anything wrong.

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  • I don't think it has anything to do with you. He's being selfish. What makes you think it was your fault, anything he said or did?

  • He could also be a sleazebag that just wanted sex. He got what he wanted, and it had nothing to do with you, at all.

    • I hope so.

  • Or just used you to get off and then left.
    Did you date a bit or just hook up?

  • It could be he got what he wanted and moved on. You won't know for sure until he tells you, which is doubtful.

  • How was the sex?

  • He used you.

  • No, don't blame yourself he needs to take a look at himself, I think he was just with you to get sex and that is it, sorry to tell you this but I believe it's true?

  • Or just a one night stand guy

  • Sadly I think he just wanted to have sex with you and that all he wanted.

  • Neither. He got what he wanted now he’s done with you till he gets horny again and can’t find someone else

  • Wow that sucks.

  • nope not your fault, he was just a pussy hunter and wants variety

  • No, fuck that guy, you can do better

  • Some guys are Trophy Hunters, one and done, quantity not quality.
    They can be found on Tinder with the other perverts and predators.

  • Nope.

  • No he is an asshole

  • You're pathetic. This guy beat you in every way. He left u like a dick and still you think you're in the wrong... Sad.

  • Yes it's your fault ( for thinking there was ever anything between you two) no he didn't hate you as a person. You weren't a person at all. Just a f*** toy.