I had sex with him in public at the first date, do you think he's going to think i'm a whore or something like that?

I just got really horny cause i didn't had sex in a while, and he was insisting so i wasn't able to control it.
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  • Well, not that you're a whore, they typically have hour hotels they know of. Definitely that you have a kink though. On my end I'd be going "jackpot". Only about 1% of women are into BDSM, getting with a freak and figuring that out on the first date without me having to bring it up...

    That allows for a lot of creativity in setting the pace and future scenes. See where it goes and don't be so worried about your image in that. He had sex in public too, out of the two of you, a guy has more to worry about in that situation.

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  • Someone can insist all they want, they didn't make you lose control. Only you are in control of your self control. That being said: if you both wanted to have sex, and you found a thrill in public sex, then nice! Hope you two had a great time and used protection. I would not think a woman who had sex with me on the first date would be a whore or anything. I'd think she was pretty rad tbh haha.

    Some women are just really into the person they're on a date with and decide that they want to get boned. It's all good.

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  • Whore is a strong word. As for what this guy thinks, maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. He did the same exact thing as you did though, so who is he to judge? I don't like that you said, "he was insisting" though. Sounds like he was only after one thing.

  • Well, you've been put into a box of some sort with him. If you are serious about anything with him, you are going to have to go MIA and resurface with boundaries that you can stick to. But you are at best a good time girl currently.

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  • Of course. You're nothing more than a free prostitute. Don't be surprised if he drops you like a disease when he finds a better woman.

    • Well what you define as a "better woman"? A boring one maybe? I've had sex on the first date before and it end up once at proposal and another time in a 3 year relationship.

    • No. A "better woman" would be someone he can respect. He doesn't respect you & why should he?

    • As for your previous "adventures" more than likely you get anywhere - not married as example - because the men involved were just keeping you around until they found better.

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  • Well if he’s gonna think you’re a whore for doing that, then it makes him one as well because not only did he also do it, he initiated it.

  • You couldn't control you sexual urges so you expect guys to? What would you say about a rapist who said he couldn't control his horny urges? But yes, sex on the first date means you are what guys used to say, She is easy.

    • I was being nice. you are a whore then.

    • You assumed it yourself in your question, that you might be considered a whore. Yet when someone agrees with you the claws come out. *rolls eyes* Maybe you would do better to stop trolling with these dumb ass fake questions that you know will probably get you flamed. You got the attention you wanted so hush.

    • And also a troll who is probably a guy.

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  • Probably thinks its you kink... Uh I guess maybe would ask if its okay to do it again is my guess.

  • Where else do Anonymous TROLLS have sex other than in public, maybe partly under their home bridge.

  • "I wasn't able to control it." No, you could have controlled it but you chose to not do that. You should take responsibility for your actions.

  • well duh, non sluts and whores don't just go around letting anyone tap it. XD
    not particularly anything wrong with being one, just maybe save doing it in public for the illegalities.

  • I’m sure he thought it was a fun thing for you to do. What type of public place was it?

  • He did the same thing though

  • You couldn't excuse yourself to the bathroom? Let's be honest: you COULD help yourself. You didn't WANT TO; because you wanted to feel entitled to the thrill, no matter the consequences.

    Inability to be honest with yourself tells me that his opinion of you being a "whore" is the least of your problems at the moment. If he thinks that, let him. But he's no better.

    • I don't regret doing it that late and at this place so... i dont get what the inability to be honest with myself has to do with what im saying. I never said that i wasn't able to control not doing it in public.

  • sometimes it happens

  • Yes he might think that you a whore for doing that, can you blame him? :)

    • So i should believe that he is a whore?

    • A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock.

  • Nah, he's going to take you home to his mother :D

    • This has happend tho. Not once but twice. And guess what... both times i had sex on the first date. I know unbelievable there are men out there that actually like women that are okay and know how to express their sexuality.

  • It depends on the guy. Personally I wouldn't. I've done it before also. It's a great ice breaker lol

  • Where did you do it?

    • it's something like a park, i live in a really small city and it was late at night

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  • remeber, he was also having sex on the first date, so do you think he is a slut or something?
    or was it 2 people getting busy and enjoying the moment?

    • yeah i agree with you but a lot of people seem to think otherwise

    • "It's always the women's fault" Ya, right.

  • He will probably think it was too easy.

  • I mean he’s also a man whore himself so who cares what he thinks lol

  • You are not the only one who had this sex... he was equally involved honey and if he thinks you are a whore then so is he...

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