I had sex with my friends with benefits for the first time. Problem being he has a small d***.

In comparison to my ex boyfriend its like a pencil. I don't know how to feel about it as I know I should just accept it but you know. Its just hard when you're used to seeing a beasty thing compared too. But he's a really nice guy, so I guess personality rules all I'm just paranoid would he still feel anything?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I guess he forgot to mention, you get the friend, & he gets the benefits.

    in a FWB it's for the sex only so if he isn't measuring up then he should be trying to make up for it in other ways. If he isn't, then he's useless & shouldn't be in that type of R/L. Tell him straight up, get down or get out little fella.

  • What I have learned so far about FWB is that in such a relationship , you are allowed to be shallow, because your only with the person for the sex without commitment. Don't lead the poor guy on. Tell him you found another lover who satisfies your needs.

    • We were a friends with benefits but we also hoped to have a relationship from it. Yeah, I'm just really difficult when it comes to being satisfied.

    • I don't blame you, we all have our needs. You just have to find out for yourself which need is greater, the sexual or the emotional need. You find more about that when you have spend more time with a person.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Was he your friend before you decided to be FWB, or was he just an acquaintance? I think you should cut him off, tell him you don't wanna be FWB anymore. Its supposed to be pleasure, and I don't think you get much of that if its too small.

    -love Sosa

    • Yeah he was. I wanted a relationship with him as he's such a lovely guy. But he's like 6 foot 6 I just didn't expect him to have a small penis.

    • Well are you okay with it being small? -love Sosa

  • The whole point of a FWB relationship is to have sex with no emotion and if you don't like the sex then don't it again! But you can't compare every guy to the size of your ex because if you do you will be disappointed!

    • good points.

  • If you don't like it then move on to another guy who has a bigger penis. Don't force yourself to be into something you are not. Do whatever pleases you. Good luck

    • True but he's such a lovely guy.

    • well do whatever pleases you. Good luck in whatever you decide!

    • +1

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  • If you didn't enjoy the sex, then you didn't. It may not be nice to him, but it's not your fault.

    If he was someone you were in love with, I'd say work on the sex, but for a FWB, if the benefits are not good, what's the point?

  • I’ve had so many women not feel me

  • He's a FWB, drop him.

    Find a guy who doesn't have that problem.

    Even if you don't compare, doesn't change the fact that he's small.

    Personality doesn't rule when you just want a good f***.

  • You're probably better off finding someone who has a penis to match your vaginal size. A good fit is important in any relationship and even more important in a FWB.

  • If you are not satisfied then move on. Don't stick around just because you think he's a nice guy because in the end, you'd wanna be happy and satisfied too with your FWB. If you are satisfied with his small size and personality then stick around.