I hate having a vagina. Any tips?

[Anonymous]

I hate having periods im sick of people telling me that having a vagina is a blessing as I can now bear children, because I don't WANT to bear children. I am sick of having to tiptoe around the fact that I don't want to bear children because I'm afraid of offending someone that DOES want children and CAN'T have children

I tried to have sex once with a guy but he didn't really penetrate me completely. I had no idea what to do. I loved him so while we were trying to do it, it felt nice. Being intimate with someone you love. I haven't loved anyone since and I genuinely can't imagine having sex again. I'm not all that happy with my body either.

I tried to masturbate with penetration but I felt so weird and uneasy the thought of shoving something in my body makes me feel gross and scared.

I really would rather have a penis but yeah that isn't possible so I'm not sure what to do now. I don't want to spend the rest of my life a virgin but I like the idea of sex and every time I have wet dreams of being with a man I'm a gay dude. I rarely even do it with my clit. Like one or twice a month sometimes even less.

[Keyboardkat]

May I suggest that you get therapy to figure out why you dislike your own self that much? Have you been raised to believe that a woman is somehow inferior to a man, or that being a girl is something to be ashamed of? Sometimes some unenlightened fathers let their daughters know, directly or indirectly, that they would have preferred to have a son, which devalues the girl in her own mind, and is a terrible thing for a man to do to his own daughter! This, by the way, is a hangup that I, as a guy do not share! Being male or female is neither good nor bad, it just is!

[chHaynes]

I got nothing for you I would recommend sticker pack of ice preferably right around just above vagina area it should help with the pain he's got to come up with some ideas on how to deal with it there's no way to around it

[SamtheDnDgirl]

You could a trans man, which is okay.

Just talk to a professional counselor, who specializes in gender issues.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Is it possible that you're trans?

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I ask because I am trans and went through a lot of what you are describing.

[Guardian45]

Woman to man?

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@Guardian45 Yes

[vampireelf]

Ha, i would love to have a vagina 😂 maybe give strapons a try? I know women who would love to have a penis and have a lot of fun with strapons

[chriscdi]

i think you are going to live a miserable life in this case

[stuntbrain]

Get used to it Nobody likes having a vagina

[Twalli]

Do you see yourself as a guy?

[In_Trance]

Have it removed

[Aiko_E_Lara]

The grass is always greener on the other side.

[Guardian45]

Talk to mental health counselor.

[Guardian45]

You may be a man trapped in a woman's body.

[Valnac]

I think you haven’t met the right guy yet.

[Anonymous]

What do you wanna have?