Guys, I hate that my boyfriend watches porn?

I hate that it bothers me. I wish it didn't but it does. We have sex 2-3 times a week. I've heard him late at night in the bathroom watching it. I know he's not addicted or anything like that, he usually does it when I'm not in the mood that day. It sucks because these porn stars have way better bodies and prettier faces than me. They also can do way more than me so of course he's going to like them more. I feel like I'm in a competition with them. He tells me he loves me and thinks I'm beautiful but watches naked women who are more beautiful than me? I want to stop letting this get to me because I feel stupid but I can't.
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  • Most guys watch porn, and you girl should stop being so overjealous about it, as it's just an movies. In the end of the day your boyfriend is in relationship with you, and not with the porn stars. You are not in competition with porn stars, your boyfriend don't even know those porn stars in real life. Also if you have sex with him only 2-3 times a week, you should not be surprised about him watching porn.

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  • he's disrespecting you with this habit. you need to trek him that if he wants to keep you, he needs to stop the porn.

  • It's a fantasy; he's not going to leave you. So you do you.

  • What if the porn motivates him to try more things with you? You never know, I've heard stories from friends that their boyfriends were even more romantic by trying certain things they've seen in porn videos on their current girlfriends. You never really know though, some men are wired to only get erect from porn. It's a pretty touche subject, but you should discuss it with him if you feel bothered about it.

  • If you win a man with your body alone another woman can take him with her body but if you win his heart with your mind body and soul together no other woman has that and can't win him because no other woman is like YOU.

  • ya some girls hates their boyfriend to watches porn movies but there's is another reason for boys.., you know 97% boys daily watches porn and masturbate...

    • 97% ? Well damn... I'm really a minority here. ^^;

    • your right

    • even 97.5% girls watches shopping in the tv

  • if the women were ugly would you feel better

  • Well you are in NO WAY in competition with them, that's all YOU and in your head. But, you have a right to your feelings so tell him how you feel. He should respect them/you and find somewhere else to go or something. It's kind of cruel to deny sex and porn lol, but he can do it somewhere else or something so you don't have to know about it or hear it.

  • Is he watching porn by choice over you or because you don't want more sex?