I hate the word "lovemaking or making love", but my boyfriend keeps using it. I get turn off. help?

My boyfriend keeps on referring us having sex as "making love or love making". it makes me cringe every time. Yes we have a great sex life. I enjoy him, he enjoys me. But for me sex should be only sex (sex or fucking), nothing else. Making love (slow sex) makes everything confusing and attached even if we have been together for almost three years. How can I make him stop say it, and how can I make him have only fuck/sex me?
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  • They're just words, the important thing is the meaning the words bring with them. Well, if you don't like it, keep asking him to stop. Say you prefer words like sex, say that these words turn you on. There must be something that will make him understand.

  • Any woman who says to me lets fuck that is very disrespectful i can see why your life will never be happy
    course it's the internet so we got consider what source you may be so sad :(

    • Well. That's how I like it. I like to fuck, and that's how it is. I don't think it is disrespectful at all!

    • Yeah, i can imagine your parental upbringing. Smh

    • Not really. I will e a great mother and I know that. Sex is all about fantasys so if I like to fuck than I like to fuck. I am sure you like something freaky (fetish) does that mean you are a bad parent or gonna be a bad parent, no.

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  • I only like the term sex. Love making or maki love just sounds so unrealistic an cheesy

    • “I’m here to fix the drains ma’am”

    • @Illusive_Man lol that just made me laugh super hard

    • “it appears everything is... Soaking wet... I better get to work and fix the leak by... plugging the leak”

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  • Lol I would be so happy if I had a boyfriend like that

    • Really? Yes I love him, the term kills the mood every time.

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  • Seems silly to me, but if it's the end of the world, tell him. I never understand questions like this. If you want him to know, you have to tell him.

  • I don't disagree about the words being cheesy, but you're SOL with this one. If you tell him to stop saying it after three years he's going to demand to know why, and when he figures out that you get turned off by the idea of emotional, attached sex, even after 3 years together, he's going to start second guessing everything and wondering why he's in a three year relationship with you.

  • Well well, my girlfriend get turn off if i say let´s have sex. She rather i say let´s make love.

    • arh. I couldn't! too cheesy

    • I think the same. Am i rather say nothing really and just go along with the moment.

  • Well, what if he loves you, and just doesn't know how to say it yet

    • He has said it. He says it everyday, but that word really turns me off. I don't like it at all. I go from being super wet to dryer than Sahara

    • Then maybe you don't love him..

    • No I do!! But that doesn't mean we need to make love. We can still fuck and have normal sex without having slow and passionate one

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  • Wow, you are the opposite of most women.

    • Is that positive or negative

    • Positive in my opinion.

    • Thanks :)

  • tell him to stop being a dumb fuckwitt

  • If it really bothers you that much tell him, I think you're being idiotic