I have a fetish for married men, how common is this?

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How common is this? I know it's wrong but I get turned on a lot when a taken guy starts flirting with me and the sex just feels better.

DesiBeautyLover · Accepted Answer

Well, I wouldn't have a problem with online videos of fake scenarios like that, but the fact it turns you on in REAL life. I wouldn't say weird. A fetish is a fetish. You can't help yourself. If you're aroused by it, you're aroused by it, but morally, it's wrong. But I would put more blame on the guy, than I would on you. He's flirting and sleeping with you, and it turns you on, okay. But I think HE is the one who is morally wrong for doing it. So I wouldn't blame yourself so much. I mean, if it turns you on you, it turns you on. I have some strange fetishes myself, so I know you can't really control them, and I don't even want to. But this is an interesting case, because it's morally hurting another person. But again, I think it's more the guy's fault. I'm not gonna judge you for your fetish, as I have some pretty fucked up ones, myself.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm a psychology student and me and a couple of my friends looked into this. Women are often attracted to men that are taken because they feel they're superior to the gf/wife. That mentality that I'm having what's yours makes the sex feel better. And gives a boost to your self esteem. It's also a sign of insecurity, because you're trying so hard to prove a point to yourself unconsciously. I knew a girl like that, but one day she got a boyfriend. She couldn't trust other girls because she thought they were all like her. She was right because her best friend slept with him and he left her for her friend. Karma is a bitch. But if you get your rocks off knowing you're hurting another women or having what's hers. I hope for your sake you never fall inlove. Because they're many girls like you and your man will be their target. Goodluck

Goodwifie · Accepted Answer

Go after a married man all you like but be ready to get caught in the crossfire.  It's the shittiest thing to do to another woman.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

unfetish that shit cause its nasty home wrecking whoriness at its worst.

Carnelian47 · Answer

anuj82333 hit it on the head. It reaches into a competitive side of you, and also helps boost your confidence.

Anecdotal evidence suggests that men with wedding rings get hit on more often that their counterparts without rings. Sometimes the thrill of the hunt is a powerful force.

Ez_or_Hard · Answer

That feeling, that, "I'm getting turned on by being hit on by a married man" is a feeling you get you when you realize you about to ruin something and you don't care lol. The sex feels better cause its guilty and guilt is bliss. But forreal those relationships are short lived right? Had you anything long term with the same setup? and had it occurred to you that if he did his wife like that he would do you like that?

MrMysteryMan · Answer

Yeah, I think this is something a lot of women have. Well not that it's a fetish, per say, but to see a married man, especially if they treat their kids great and has a good career and seems stable, I'm pretty sure this is the exact man women want to have in their life. So of course they entertain the idea of going after one. But noticed I said "entertain" the idea...

TerriblyTravis · Answer

I think that's all about the fling.
The suspense.
The quick rush.

We never step back and ask what ut might cause or how it will all end up.

We don't care at that point.

I'll say one thing.
Such a fetish will ruin any marriage you actually want to pursue yourself.

normalice · Answer

I'd imagine it's quite rare as finding a relationship is all the rave among women, in general.

How do you find guys, though? do you just look for someone wearing a wedding ring and start talking to them? I didn't know married men were allowed to leave the house alone. And if they did escape with the intent to flirt, wouldn't they take their ring off?

Tony_1693 · Answer

I don't know but I have a thing for married women.

sudhansh4u · Answer

It's something found in boys as well for married women too, and being a married guy I too prefer

cth96190 · Answer

You would not be a popular person among married women.

genericname85 · Answer

that´s not a fetish xD that´s being too lazy to find your own guy and verify that he´s worth marrying :P

OlderGuy965 · Answer

Yeah, that's common. I couldn't get pussy hardly at all until I got married. Then I could get it very easily.

maestrodematimaticas · Answer

I had a friend like you. I don't know if it was because it was forbidden fruit or the extra attention. Its like a married man has another woman's seal of approval.

billmymane · Answer

Because you arentvteady for commitment. To potentially save a life, I suggest you find men who's wife either want to watch or join in and participate. Those monogamous women can be funny bout violence. And don't I repeat don't tell the wife if she was doing things right he wouldn't be having sex with you. Bad things happen at that point. Last. Sooner or later you will be labeled a home wrecker because if your preference. That said, either stop now since the luck of not getting caught up in the drama lessens with each time it happens or set a goal to become the best home wrecker you can be.

Regular1 · Answer

You are the BEST type of girl!

ItsYaBoySkinnyPen-is · Answer

You're just a cunt.

youngatyeart · Answer

I'm available!

Glen68 · Answer

It's actually fairly common

loveisfree1 · Answer

Im married and i hope for something like this one day no lie.. its so wrong but its so sexy.

Top_stoner420 · Answer

Same but for women

anuj82333 · Answer

It's quite normal. It gives you a sense of achievement and a superiority over his wife

Anonymous · Answer

Women want, what they can't have. It's a face of life

I have a fetish for married men, how common is this?

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