I have a girlfriend, but I slept with a guy, because I was curious as to how it would feel. Is this considered as cheating?

I've been in this relationship with her for 5 years and lately I've had this urge to experience intercourse with a man. Now, this was a one night stand and nothing more, happened yesterday and didn't tell my girlfriend about it. I've been thinking about this for months and had this unsettling urge to the point it was really annoying. The guy was very attractive and sweet and he made me feel good. He actually texted me today and tried calling me, but I'm ignoring him, because I feel guilty. I know when I'll tell this to my girlfriend, she'll break up with me and I don't want that, but I also like this guy, because this experience was SO good, I still want it. Is this considered as cheating even though it was only a one night stand? Is it bad that I still want it?
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  • Yeah, I think this would be cheating

    • It cheating no matter what

    • @Pastuccid I didn't say it was anything but cheating...

  • How could you think this isn't cheating?

  • Okay, it took me a few seconds to figure out you're bi, but yes, if you don't talk to her about her, you're basically cheating. I say you try and tell her ASAP, it'll only get worse as time passes.

    • what is bi?

    • Aaaand now it took me a while to realize I'm fucking stupid XDD Anyways, still tell her about it.

  • yes cheating with boy

  • Yup!

  • Yes, it's considered cheating. If the Significant Other had no idea, or didn't agree to this, it's still cheating. And no, it isn't bad, but it is bad that you haven't told her.

  • you had SEX with someone else than your SO xD yeah this is cheating

  • Ofc it was fucking cheating wtf, you fucked another man.

    • OH, i'm sorry that I didn't notice if that was SO obvious. I mean, not everybody has an intelligent brain of yours. SHAME :( Anyways, thanks for your answer :)

    • I mean cmon

  • Yep it is...

  • If u share the feeling with ur girlfriend.. then its not cheating

  • Yes do it again with me

  • yes, it is cheating. You should also break up with your girlfriend too because it's obvious that you have feelings for another person already and it isn't fair for your girlfriend or the other guy because it is like you're leading both of them on.

  • Of course it's cheating. Of course it is.

  • Dump the girl be with the guy. Don’t be gay just because society says you should be

  • You are in same situation I have been in for many years. You may like to see my question just asked anon "Another ditch before me".