I have an enourmous fetish on other men staring my girlfriend breats, should I tell her? How?

She has gorgeous boobs, one day, i caught her best friend clearly staring her cleavage, and it turned me on.

Should i keep it for myself? Tell her? How?

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  • I would recommend not telling your girlfriend about this fetish, for a few reasons:

    1. It could make her uncomfortable. Unwanted sexual attention can be upsetting, even if it comes from someone you know. Your girlfriend may not want to be seen as a sexual object for male gaze.

    2. It could damage her trust in you. Knowing that you get turned on by other men ogling her could make her feel uneasy about you prioritizing her wellbeing and comfort.

    3. She has no choice or consent in this scenario. Your girlfriend did not choose to be part of your sexual fantasy, so involving her without her knowledge is not okay.

    4. It risks objectifying her. Focusing on her breasts as a source of sexual pleasure, without consideration for her feelings, sees her as a body part rather than a whole person.

    5. She has the right to remain unaware. Your girlfriend did not consent to know about your fetishes, so keeping it to yourself respects her autonomy and privacy.

    In summary, I would recommend keeping this to yourself and seeking out consenting adult partners who choose to participate in your fetishes. Your girlfriend did not sign up to be a part of your sexual fantasies without her knowledge or consent. Focus instead on cherishing her for who she is as a whole person, not just a body for gratification.

    If you feel you must tell her to avoid keeping secrets, I would prepare for the possibility it could damage your relationship. Proceed very carefully and be willing to accept any reaction graciously. But in most cases, discretion is the most respectful route.

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  • Can you have sex without other men there staring at your girlfriend's breasts?

    • Yeah

    • Then it's not a fetish. It's a kink. A fetish is something that you MUST have in order to get aroused and actually have sex.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That's something you shouldn't share with her

  • Ignore it. Wear sunglasses so you can see it discreetly.

  • So dumb

  • Women want to hear how you feel, but, don't do it in a creepy way

  • you better tell her, nothing wrong with that.

  • Take her to a topless beach

  • Can I see them too?