I have been asked to go on a 2 1/2 day camping trip with an older girl from work?

[Alex-Snow]

Please don't laugh! I'm 18 and this girl who just turned 20 (she is hot) asked me if I would go camping with her at a kinda remote park about 1.5 hours away. We both work part-time at a sports store during our summer jobs. She is going to be a Sophomore in a different college and I start as a Freshman in 4 weeks at yet a different college. We both are avid campers and get along well. My mom is way cool about it and just said to bring protection and left it at that! My slightly older sister just gave me a hug and a thumbs up. (we are very close and tell each other everything)

The thing is, we both have been flirting and I know she is way more experienced in sex than I am. I'm not a virgin, but have only had sex (and not to much of it) with 2 girls and am still on a learning curve so to speak. I know we are going to have tons of sex camping and I can't wait! But my question to girls, is it ok to mention that I'm still in the learning mode? Will this turn her off? I have always heard that girls want an "experienced " guy... ugggg The sex I have had was with high school girls with not much more experience then me, it was mostly handjobs and only several times involved sex. When I did have sex after, one time, I always wanted round 2 or 3 and still wanted more. Do girls need time to get less sensitive? I have never given oral to a girl either. Girls any hints? Yes, I'm going to bring a ton of condoms! Sorry if this is way too much TMI, but I appreciate any constructive suggestions. Guys can weigh in but take it easy on me... kinda! I really appreciate any serious replies. Sorry if this was a bit long. Thanks :)

[summiter]

Alex... honesty is always best. However don't overdo it. All girls know we had to start out somewhere. Many girls' love it when a young lover can go for 3 rounds and still want more... enjoy it!!! As long as she stays turned on and wet go for it. For oral it is ok to ask for feedback just softly ask her to let you know when you are in the right spot and to tell you what feels good. Do not be too rough.
Over a few days you can try some different positions to broaden your horizons. You will love doggy and girl on top. Give it a try and enjoy the dozens of orgasms you are going to have. I'm jealous!!

[Alex-Snow]

Thanks as always summiter

[RealMarek]

Sex isn’t rocket science. After all the time you’ve spent with her, it’s safe to say this girl is into you for who you are. She wants to be with you. If she was just looking for sex any guy would do. Just make sure you know female anatomy really well, look up some advice on technique online. Beyond some basic knowledge, attentiveness, generosity, and not holding back are much more important than experience when it comes to satisfying a woman. First, make sure she really wants to have sex. She probably does but make sure it is not ambiguous at all. Pay attention to her reactions when you touch her. If she is enjoying something you are doing, keep doing it for awhile. If you give her an orgasm or two before you have intercourse, it will reduce the pressure you feel about whether you will last long enough. If you enjoy her, let her know. Odds are she’ll enjoy the experience.

[Alex-Snow]

Good answer... I appreciate it!

[RealMarek]

You’re welcome. Have fun!

[lovinglymind69]

Sounds fun. Wish i could join and show you the ropes lol. Just go with the flow. You dontngotta say anything unless you're way nervous and she asks whats wrong then just say you make me nervous in a good way i dont want to mess this up or something. Definitely go down on her. Take your time. Kiss and explore her body all over. Foreplay is always key.

[summiter]

Great answer!

[mandyfire98]

You don't have to explain anything. Just don't stress about something that is supposed to be amazing and fun. Just let go and enjoy it. Just pay attention to her body language and her reactions and act accordingly. You're gonna do fine.

[SnowedIn]

You're good. I wouldn't say anything. Just have sex. Focus on pleasing her. She'll pick up on what you do and don't know and, if she's a considerate lover, guide you to what she likes.

[Alex-Snow]

Snowedin Your advice and comments are always spot on. Thanks so much!

[WhitneySnow]

That’s awesome. Just be honest with her.

[Alex-Snow]

Thanks Whitney... good advice as always. I'll give you any details in a DM when I return. lol

[WhitneySnow]

No prob!

[WhitneySnow]

Update: that’s awesome!!! Glad you guys had fun.

[Alex-Snow]

Whit... it was incredible.. I can tell u more in a dm

[Dargil]

When the foreplay starts, simply but confidently say: "I'm something of a novice at this, so be patient with me." That will defuse everything. If you are knowledgeable and capable at oral sex, be prepared to go there. You will give her a fond memory. And she will enjoy coaching you.

[exitseven]

Don't overthink this and watch out for poison ivy.

[Alex-Snow]

Ha good idea. At least the condoms will keep one part of me safe.. lol

[RingOfFire]

Don't worry about it. At 20 she is also inexperienced. Take my word for it. Just do what comes naturally and relax about it. Have a good time.

[Wise4myage]

First off, no one is gonna laugh at you, ok. Just go and have fun, but don't have any expectations and just enjoy yourself.

[jahaims]

She is begging to smash. Just enjoy the camping and stop thinking.

[Alex-Snow]

Ur right. The slamming part will be no problem!

[Anonymous]

Do not lead with your desire, lead with your logic. Ignore the dangers from this METOO culture at your own peril. 2 1/2 day camping trip with a girl alone on a 'sort of remote' location amounts to you placing your freedom and life in her hands. If at any point she decided to, she could ruin your life and take away your freedom in just one word. If she felt any shame, disappointment or regret days, weeks or months after the trip... you are giving her the power to use it against you. Any smart man would simply avoid such situations, for temporary pleasure is not worth the price of freedom.

It's much wiser to find a woman you truly trust, and one who has proven herself to you. This is the perspective every man should consider before doing what you plan to do. Always place logic before lust.

[Lliam]

You're insane.

[Alex-Snow]

My gut says this will not be a me too moment. We have gotten to know each other pretty well and there is touching and good chemistry

[Opinion Owner]

Excellent. It's always wise to consider all risks, all pros and all cons.

[Anonymous]

To me that sets my MeToo alarm screaming

[Anonymous]

Bring lots of condoms.

[Alex-Snow]

Already packed!

[Opinion Owner]

I would say sounds like me at that age, but it still sounds like me.

[Alex-Snow]

Good for you... have fun also!

[Opinion Owner]

Always do.

[Opinion Owner]

How did it go?

[Alex-Snow]

I had more orgasms in 2 and a half days then I usually do in 2 weeks. We had fun... went swimming, paddleboarding, hiking and an incredible amount of sex. Thanks for asking!

[Opinion Owner]

That's awesome! And sounds like she had a great time too!

[Alex-Snow]

I think so and she had a way hot body and liked to sleep naked in her sleeping bag...

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds very sexy indeed!