I have doubts? Will I be a lesbian, bisexual, or straight?

I still have doubts about my sexuality and I hope I can clarify them because I am an insecure person and I come from a homophobic family, so this has taken away the possibility of being able to experiment with a woman.

But I have realized that I am doubtful because there are days when having intimate relations with a man does not satisfy me, but if I connect emotionally with a man and if I fall in love.
In the case of women, they do not attract my attention emotionally but they are the only thing that excites me to the point of making me get very horny and need to masturbate because I love female anatomy and I am very interested in the lesbian x videos and it is The only genre of videos that I like to watch, in the case of women, the opposite happens to me and it is that they turn me on but very rarely do I feel that I like them.
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There was a time when I liked a friend of mine and I masturbated thinking about her and I even felt jealous (I think I did like her) and I felt excited when I saw her.
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Superb Opinion

  • You don't really need a label and you don't need to figure that all out right now, but when you do, you'll know what feels right.

    For me, I am a panromantic lesbian. I can fall in love with anyone regardless of gender. I am still only sexually attracted to women.

    This can change over time, mine did. It's ok. Nothing is wrong if it does. Don't force yourself to try things you are comfortable with but also don't force yourself into a box thinking you can only be one thing to define yourself.

    • @ez-bri-z oh hi, fancy seeing you here, come here often?

    • To LGBT topics? Absolutely. Gotta make sure everyone is behaving themselves.

    • @ez-bri-z Ditto 🌈

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Relax don't worry about it let nature happen the way it's going to happen you already know which way it's going to happen you just can't become somebody because your family is somebody are somebody in your family is whatever they are just relax let it all work out it's a beautiful experience don't get yourself all caught up when I was your age if I would have had the internet I would be a genius by now and with the internet there's different apps that you can go to and explore and experience roll play it out experience something before you could understand something you have to experience it it'll all work out believe me whether you know it or not right now in your subconscious you have a destination you have desire and you will get there don't be in such a hurry

  • Do you have strong feelings either way? It sounds like you are too young to be sexual active, but then again, I was fooling around with girls at a young age and probably come off as a hypocrite for suggesting you hold off on sex.
    I recommend you give it time and ask questions, do your homework, and resolve not too get in too much of a hurry too find out. You have a lifetime too find the answers too those questions.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Probably bi. On some spectrum. Nothing wrong with that.

    I get physically turned on by women but not so much emotionally connected. But I get physically turned on and emotionally connected to men

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I would try not to overthink it and not to throw labels around.

    enjoy life, take it easy and let things.

    @prettypriya @secretsofkb

    one for you two.

    • I smell the most women are bisexual nut job troll on this one.

    • @SaoirseS I was thinking same, hence double tagging

  • You are not straight, and it's not uncommon among women.

    I have doubts? Will I be a lesbian, bisexual, or straight?
  • You don't have to decide, because you don't need a label. Date whoever you find attractive.

  • It's not just three possibilies. You can be pansexual, like someone regardless of gender identity.

  • You might be heteroromantic/bisexual and demisexual toward men (if you're sexually attracted to men).

  • What makes you feel insecure? Sounds like you have time to learn. Yes female bodies are stunning

    • I am very shy and I am very bad at taking the initiative and I am afraid of never being with another girl. also my parents are homophobic and they will never support me, my mother especially would be the one who would hate him the most

    • Hate him?

    • Sad your parents are scared

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  • maybe you haven't tried the good things with mens?

    • Gotta try it once at least and make sure you’re not missing out. It’s…. something else 🥵😍

  • I'm going through the same thing but only between straight and bi but talking about it and feeling it out is something I've thought about but it's definitely about living *your* truth

  • you're a normal woman. All women are bisexual. Its not weird at all.

    • No they're not

    • @Neko_Nya yes they are. I've dated so many straight girls end up eating pussy. They just scared its weird but when they are reassured they all want to try tbh.

    • No they're not, dating girls in your imagination don't count

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  • if I would you I would try not to see it in black and white and pursue relations with both. you will only know where you stand after exploring. and you may not know for a long time.

  • I mean I’m straight af but I also like lesbian porn so Idt that effects whether or not you’re straight etc

  • wow you like me I guy but more time like wear girly dress outdoor I like be female all time so we can help us to do sex please reply me

  • I think you are bisexual... you still have time to experiment.

  • I say your a pansexual. You don’t fall for the gender. But the person.


  • what do you want really? Do you feel from the bottom of your heart that you want to eat a vagina and devour those fleshy lips? or is it just curiosity? what do you think?

    • Bisexual


  • I think you want the pleasure of both

  • Meh, you're just a typical woman.

    Why worry about it? Just do what feels right at the time?